Not giving you a reading, but giving some thoughts on this that may serve as some advice with regards to the questions you have now:
1° too many reading all at once can confuse you. And that is what you are feeling right now.
2° these are questions which you can answer for yourself: what are you doing in your life to meet people and enhance the chance to find love? Are you passively waiting? Or are you out there in the social world making friends, meeting new people, and/or possible partners? If you are not socially active, chances are slim that any opportunity that was seen for you in a reading will come to pass. (Not saying that you are not socially active, just speaking generally).
3° the 3 do not have to contradict each other. You may meet the love of your life in 44 days, but that does not mean you will recognize that person to be the love of your life at first meeting. It is possible that you will only discover the connection after February, or perhaps even years later. And this person may be having red hair and be called Marion. Or maybe it's a friend of red haired Marion. Maybe the someone you'll meet and connect with after Feb is just someone you connect with on a friend level, or someone you get involved with but the relationship fails and makes you realize that the 44 days person is actually the love of your life, etc... they can all be true and be about 3 different persons, or one person, or bridges... basically they are predicted "opportunities", no more, no less. It's up to you to live life so that you will actually see and meet the opportunities, and up to you to decide what to do with them.
4° don't pin yourself down on the n° of days, hair colour or name, because this may cause you to be blind for other opportunities out there. Secondly, such timed and hair coloured name readings may cause you to become passive and expect them to come knocking on your door. Not only do you miss out on other opportunities that did not come up in a reading, but miss out on those of the reading as well.
So, my advice (not a psychic reading) is to not confuse yourself any more by more readings, and instead go out the door and enjoy meeting people. Your heart will tell you when you meet someone interesting.
All the best of times and luck
SSR