Hello board.......
Here goes my story. I met a man and our relationship could be characterized as meeting your soul mate. From a distance i could taste what this man was eating and so on. In January, I was able to predict a sequence of events occurring for our lives. From his mother passing away, to a promotion at his work place, to a girl baby we would have, to his little sister coming to live with us. Since January pretty much everything I told him would be happening to us this year has already transpired. Except he has not moved in with me as of yet, but when/if he does his little sister will be coming to live with us. And i am only a month pregnant at this point and I do not know the baby's sex yet.

Everything was perfect.
Until my spirit guides led me to uncover that he has been cheating on me. He swears that he is sorry and states that he is completely understanding that his insecurities lead him to go outside our relationship. He has been begging me to give him a second chance. This was not an option to me until i found out i was pregnant......

I do understand that no one is perfect and I myself am not free from sin in this relationship. I do understand that two wrongs do not make a right. So I am hoping that someone might be able to provide some insight into my present situation...

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Having a baby is not an excuse to fix, mend, or repair a broken relationship.  That needs to be taken on its own merit.  

Please consider what Dr. Phil would call the 'deal breakers' in your relationship without consideration of the pregnancy.  A full time happy mother is more important than a father and mother at odds all the time.

I think you should forgive him...from what info I got from your story, I think he only let his impulsed took over when that happened. But I don't know the exact number of times on how much he cheated you...but I still think it was because of uncontrollable impulses.

Impulses are a measure of our maturity.  We can control ourselves when we want to make a relationships work.  Something needs to be examined here.  Communication is the key to a good relationship.

Let me also be allowed to give my view.

If you read what you started with, then I am more willing to give the answer....Forgiveness.

But...It must be given on the clear ground that another "break of your trust" will not be tolerated.
If you choose to do this, then you must be willing, and able, to forgive him in your heart. If you feel you are not able to do that, then maybe a reunite has no future, because insecurity on him will destroy a good relationship because of doubt.

To be able to forgive is one of our most precious gift, but only if received and understood...to forgive and forgive is only an exploit of good will, and lead no way.

You are the one who must take responsibility for the decision you have to make....we can only give our thoughts....but we can never feel your feelings....nor can we feel the connection....only you can do that.

Good luck with the future, whatever choice you make