I agree - we can be both the vampire and the vampire's victim.  This article gave me a lot of pause when I thought it through.    Perhaps that is where the choice of balance in life come in?

pirbid it is not my topic but I think that what you said is a valid point.

Part of being a mature adult is the ability to give others attention without feeling like one is loosing something in the exchange because they weren't the center of attention. And I expect that for the most part one would learn this ability from the adults around them when they are a child. This type of adult would "not" be considered an energy drainer and they might even be considered a "therapeudic personality." A free energy giver.

Part of what we are talking about here is psychological and not psychic. When we are noticed by others and we are happy about it we feel safe. So the object is to be noticed by others in a way that we feel safe, as much as possible, this is purely psychological programming. Some folks feel "not safe" when they have to notice someone else and this is also purely psychological programing. And anytime a person feels "not safe" they experience anger and or depression which results in a fight or flight responce. And all of that has to do with normal personality programing and has nothing to do with psychic stuff. It is all purely a psychological responce to personality programing.

The information that SpiritTalk posted works for both the psychic energy drain and the energy drain that is caused by one's personality programing. It matters not which one it is, the advice works for both situations The whole thing in a "nut shell".

love,

sunmystic

SpiritTalk, only a loving person such as you would even consider the question of balance. Most people would say, "It is their fault, not mine!" and then continue on their way

love you,

sunmystic