Hi Guyz! I stumbled on this forum from another forum I go to for beauty and I thought that there must be a reason that I came here. After thinking I know I am meant to ask this and hopefully get an answer.

Can anyone detect negative energy around me? I've always felt a dark cloud some would describe it as bad luck. My husband ironically has kinda felt the same way his whole life. I'm not an unhappy person, in fact, I'm extremely happy. I wonder if there is a curse and if you all have any suggestions how do get rid of it? OR am I in the wrong section completely?

I heard crystals help. Any suggestions?

okay there are a lot in there that one can respond to.
I used to think the same and later I found out that is was all in my imagination. If you keep on concentrating on the negativity that 'might' exist then you are fuelling it and giving it a life of sorts.
Don't give it any more thought! Every thought has energy to it and one has to learn to become more responsible for each and every thought that pops into your head. A VEERRYY difficult task but it can be achieved.
So change your thinking asap! Happy vibes! loads and loads of happy vibs!! heehee

And i also don't believe in luck - but thats just me. I believe in only blessings and sometimes they can be a difficult one to learn but they are never bad or negative. the aim is to help you to learn something new about yourself or maybe get rid of some bad habits that you may have accumulated which can be physical or even spiritually.

With crystals, Gem is the expert here, but in my small amount of knowledge you could use crystals such as obsidian, smoky quartz, rose quartz, citrine, kynite, kunzite etcetcetec
Do some looking and poking around on the internet! Each stone has their little thing

Hope this helps a little.
Oh and this is not the only view point - its just mine

I really like your way of thinking about this, RoseRed!  It's something I've been thinking about a lot, and I've come to many of the same conclusions.

Sometimes I wonder why I've had so many blessings in my life, yet so many others have had so much pain and sorrow and tragedy, over and over.  It seems so unfair.  But I agree that



You can't give the negative things have so much power over you that you lose the ability to see the blessings when they come.  (And it's a hard thing sometimes to recognize blessings as blessings--I'm trying to think of any challenges or "bad" times that come along as blessings and/or "tests" as well, in that they have something to teach me.)

Mizzchewy, it's good to hear that you still think of yourself as a happy person.  Don't lose that by starting to feel that the bad things that happen to you somehow are coming at you from some mysterious source that you don't know how to control.  When something doesn't go well for you, maybe it would help to (a) try to get through it with the natural optimism that you already seem to be lucky enough to have, and (b) look at it as yet another challenge--one that you've been given for a reason that, even if it doesn't look like it now, is a good one, and is moving you toward something better.

Just my (very similar to RoseRed's!   ) thoughts...

Doe

I completely agree with ya! Whoop! I'm not crazy - or maybe you're crazy too? hummmm  
Its truly amazing how if you just change your thought pattern how much it affects your physical world. It is quite the task but after keeping at it I am amazed at the results and much happier as a result  
Something that I also watch out for is when someone says "Oh youre so lucky!" I always correct them and say no I'm blessed. Its kinda like by correcting it, it is also affirming it to myself.


Aaah beautifully said!

Thanks for the responses. The only thing is that your suggestons are already the way l live my life. Always thinking positive and appreciating the things I have. I dont feel like its natural. I feel like I should banish something out of my life somehow. Maybe crystals will work.