Looks like somebody (may be more than one people) from your business/office associate having your property. but, please don't waste your time in finding it for it is a definite loss. It is embarrassment to you and very fact you are looking for something, which is lost on last Xmas tells me that you need to break this news to somebody, so please break it and overcome your anxiety.

Hi crywolfe, you say business/office im not in a job like that and was not working around that time  and yes i have stopped wasting my time looking because it is not in my home because if it was i certainly would have found it, everyone knows my watch is gone, everyone meaning all the family and friends that i had a dinner party for last xmas so there was a lot of upset because people start doubting each other and thats whats wrecking my head all i wanted was answers so i really do appreciate everyone's input....i do know its gone and wont get it back

*Hugs*  I understand the sentimental value when it comes to objects. Today (September 1) was the day my grandpa died, whom I was very close to. I still keep this key he gave me when I was very young, because it was the only gift I had that was directly from him to me.  I almost lost that once, and I was terrified. In the end, if I lost it for good, I'd have to let go since I know I'll see him again.  At the same time, as a visual person, it means a lot to me.  I'm very symbolic with things. I guess that's why I do so well with stones and crystal allies.

The shelf or wardrobe you have is probably the first thing I saw.  For some reason I had the impression it was under one of the two, however I don't feel the same about that now. I tend to look under things very often when I lose an important object.  I don't believe your watch was stolen at all. Has it fallen before? I've got the feeling it fell somewhere, and that's probably how it got its legs.

Objects can fall in a bag or purse. Whether or not someone realized what it was is up to them, or even if they found it. But I'm just speculating now.

No offense Crywolfe, but don't you think that you saying it's an embarrassment wanting to find a precious personal item just a tad negative?  

When you have a love for a personal treasure, it is far from embarrassing. The item represents something to him that you know nothing about. And, quite frankly, it's less confrontational and only known to those online if he chooses to make a post online about a lost item. Psychic work is supposed to be done with unconditional love and zero judgment.

Your post *sounds* quite judgmental from how I'm reading it.  I can understand if you have a concern about his well being, however there are different ways to interpret your post.  I'm not trying to make you angry; I was only concerned about how it sounded, knowing that writing can become quite confusing!

People in general tend to have sentimental value to objects relating to someone special. I'm sure some who have used objects in readings understand that even in death we can still hold objects very dear to ourselves.

OK, I'll get in on this action!    I use Horary astrology, which is good for asking where lost objects can be found.  According to the astrology chart, which was cast for the exact moment that you asked this question at MB, at a location somewhere in Ireland (I looked for your location in your MB information)..the following results were read.

the watch was not stolen.
It is lost in your house.  It will return to you.  However, not until December (again).  
It is hidden from view.  You will not find it without looking in places that are not apparent by just using what you see when walking into a room.  It is hidden, covered, or has fallen where you do not see it.  Because astrology, like most of these arts, uses symbols to represent things, the same symbol can mean different things.  Using these, in the horary chart, the watch is either in a box without hinges, or a closet.  Concentrate your search in these ares.

good luck!  Let us know if you find it.