I would certainly listen to my inner self/Gut instincts. If you have hear the word go, seen the word go and know you should go, then make your peace with him and go. I have always found that when one door is closed another opens. That actually happened to me about 18 months ago. I was very afraid, not well and was moving back to the south from Iowa after 8 long years there. I made the choice after much worry to go because I trusted my inner self. I made a very wise choice. I found out after I had been in Texas for about 4 weeks that the person I left had been cheating on me all along. I had suspected, but I had no concrete proof. My cards, crystalball and other toold told me, my gut told me and I had a dream that told me, so I told God that if he wanted me to go home he would make a way. My son called me 2 days later and asked if I wanted to go home. I went home and as I said it was the wise choice for me. Listen to yourself.....

Gentle Hugs,

Julie

Thank you all for your replies. I'm sorry it has taken me so long to respond, but I have been out of town the last few days. Everything has been telling me to go - and I do mean everything. So, I guess it is time to go! Much love and hugs to all of you!

I wish you love, happiness and peace on your new path.

Gentle Hugs,

Julie

keep in touch and let us all know how you get on.

I wished my parents would have divorced when I was younger because we were all miserable. My mom is depressed and she took it out on everyone. My dad is a truck driver so he wasn't around that much I guess he blocked it out. Mom would get mad because he wouldn't do anything around the house. He would sleep or watch tv on the weekends. Then he would go back to work. So that's why I've been in bad relationships. One guy I was with was a really bad alocholic He was mean to me, I was there for about 2 1/2 years until I day enough is enough. I pick up and left. He kept calling telling me that he would change. I kept prying asking god to help me he told me not to go back with him. Well, I day I thought well maybe he would change So I ask him to help me moved my stuff back into the house and he said you moved it out and you can move it back in. Well needless to say I didn't move back. What I'm trying to say is that if your gut is telling you to leave leave You and your kids will be better off. You'll be much happier. Take care and good luck