I'm seeing the "mirror image" of your lives.
27::72 ,
day you were brought into this world::day he was taken out of this world.
It's not strange that you are not over his death, especially being so close. It sounds like perhaps there's some connection with the "mirror images". Try to research other dates of events (weddings/divorces , births/deaths, losses/gains) see if there's a similar connection. I can't say what this means but I hope you can figure it out (if there's anything to it). This sort of thing is not uncommon... you'll hear it now and then here.
Best wishes.
