After passing over ........can a soul realises the mistakes  it has made during his or her stay on earth .......... or  it's beliefs and understandaing about someone or something remain the same as on earth.


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I see life as a painting, every little mistake can lead to a work of art.

From the spirits I've encountered, I've never felt them feeling mistakes,
It's more of they want to connect with someone and are having a hard time doing so,

I agree, mistakes is only "dumb" if you with 100% sureness knew that your action would be wrong before you did it.

If there was a little chance that the outcome could be different, then the action was not a mistake.

If we always do the right all the time, then we knew everything, and has little to learn.

True "mistakes" we are educated and find new ways to look upon our actions.

True "mistakes" we form our life to something exciting, and yes "a piece of art" is a good description.....by not doing mistakes we live a secure life with few excitement and discovery's.

"Mistakes" is just a word....and it is a big Mistake to put to much negative meaning into it

Yes i do agree with both of you .......and yes "A work of art" is a beautiful concept .  But as we all know our  life is not always beautifull ........ i was reffering to those mistakes which cause pain to others , sometimes a person hurt someones feelings , though the wound does not show ...it hurts very badly . When a person hurt someone with his tounge it hurts more than the physical injury  ....and keep doing so all his life . It dont come  under the definition of a crime so i used the word mistake.
And if realisation comes just before passing over or after passing over then i want to know that .......does the soul can do anything to amend his or her mistakes ?

Yes...I thought that was your meaning...and I have a view on it....maybe a bit difficult for me to explain....but I shall try.

Many times we in the heat of a "discussion" or because we have "false information" (can be made in our own brain") we do or say dumb thing.

We might call them mistakes, but I think the action might not be a called that, because it is a direct action from what we believed at that moment.

The thing that is the "bad mistake" is our unwillingness to later evaluate our action, and to put down our "pride", and take the first step to fix thing.

Our Pride, is many times our "curse", because it prevent us from fixing thing that might do many people more happy, especially inside family quarrel.
This "Pride" must be override by all parts, first the one who takes the first step. then those who are approached,so they are willing to accept.

We all make up our own thoughts about an incident, and what is said or done, but none of these thoughts are the real truth, because they are all colored by ourself, and the information we had on beforehand, together with what it has develop into over time.

So I think we must be more willing to lower our Pride, and be willing to face those "mistakes", if we so do, then we will learn from them, and the mistake is again our teacher

And what we all must have in mind is: The day "tomorrow" might never come , for some, and most of those who "still live" are sitting back with a feeling of guilt...."Why did I not fix this"...."Why did we loose so many years over this small problem", and so on.