Hello everyone. It has been awhile (blimey 8 months!) since I came onboard. I do sneak a peek time to time but never participate as having some personal crisis. But miss everybody (hi there Gem, Rhutobello, Suzi et al) Anyway to cut a long story short, I had a psychic reading done and well he basically tell me to leave my husband whilst the astrology reading (vedic) said I should not divorce him as now the bad period is just a planetary influence.
However last night i had a vivid dream and well I just had to ask as I have other avenues (hey u guys are the pros remember). In my dream, I was walking down this really long flight of rickety wood steps, behind me is my husband. Than he offered me an apple which he dropped. Than a guy in front picked it up and gave it to me and I took a bite. The apple was delicious very red, juicy and crunchy. By than we had reached the end of the stairs. Than me and my husband got into this small dinghy and started floating in the sea the water was somewhat calm and the sun was shining and in front was a landscape of beautiful building and bridges. Than my husband said to me " if you still want to go with me, you have to accept my system". I accepted it reluctantly but I showed him a happy face and kissed and hugged him. And the dinghy turned back to that building with the rickety stairs. the water was calm, clear but shallow and i could paddle back with my feet.
I know this is not a fream interpretation forum but actually the point is the pyschic told me to dump him as he say if I dont, later my husband will leave me anyway and I will fall sick from depression but the vedic astrologer tells me that now my husband and I have bad planertary influence but it will be fine in a few months. And plus the dream I am so confuse. I do not want to take a wrong decision as it will have serious repercussions to the whole family and not just myself.
I hope that you can give me some guidance and enlighten me somewhat.
Love and light,
Roz

Honestly, if you were to ask whether you should or shouldn't leave your husband to me, I wouldn't be able to give you an answer. But this is what I think you said consider.

I'm not a psychic or an astrologer, but I believe that you should ask your heart for the answer. I know that sounds corny, but seriously, make your decisions based on your heart rather than some psychic or astrology. I'm not saying you should completely ignore what the psychic and astrologer said to you, but you can't make a decision based on just readings.

The success to any relationship is communication. I'm no expert, but I do believe clear communication avoids problems. Talk it out with him. I mean, he is the guy you fell in love with him. The future always changes, and to get to a certain point in the future, you need to take certain steps towards that point.

Ask yourself questions. Were you always fighting or having problems? You were both happy once, right? When did you both start fighting? Why do you keep fighting? If you were unhappy from the beginning, then maybe you should get a divorce. If you've just recently started fighting, maybe you both are going through a rocky road right now because of planets, but still, that can't be the only reason to fighting.

As for your dream, maybe it's trying to tell you that you might not appreciate what your husband does, but you do when someone else does it or that you're having problems because you don't accept him for the person he is.

Like I said before, ask yourself questions, talk to him to see what he feels about both of you fighting and compromise to a solution. If you absolutely hate each other, then divorce. Also, I'm sorry if I offended you in anyway. I  really didn't mean to. I'm no expert astrologer, psychic or dream interpreter. I'm just learning about the spiritual stuff, and one thing I realized is that the answer is inside you. All you have to do is search for it, and with the help of spirits and guides, you'll find it.

Sorry if I didn't help. I've said everything I wanted to say about your post. Good luck!

Hi Izuno, really appreciate your advice and concern. Thanks a bunch. Thats why I am more troubled by the dream than the readings actually as what you say dreams is a way of our sub conscious speaking to us. I tried interpreting the dreams. I know going down the stairs is not a good sign and it was a very long way down. Well, I have not given up on us. But you know it takes two hands to clap and well, even if I want to make it work, he might not be willing to compromise.

Once again thanks.
Roz

{{{{{{{{{{{Roz}}}}}}}}}}}}  Welcome back Lovely to see you posting again.

I really hate the experience you have had with the psychic and the astrologer. To me both should be decapitated and ignored!!  How can they say such things? Where is the point? I would suggest that you stick to one of our wonderful psychics here Free and sensible advice as always. The dream seems to me to be stimulated by the readings you have had, putting into a picture what they have said. The apple from the other guy could be a sign of temptation and innocence ( in this case faithfulness) coming into question.

But the sad thing is, noo-ne can make your decisions for you. Would you have even considered leaving your husband before the reading? Are you having problems anyway? Take into account all the facts and then ask yourself

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However last night i had a vivid dream and well I just had to ask as I have other avenues (hey u guys are the pros remember). In my dream, I was walking down this really long flight of rickety wood steps, behind me is my husband. Than he offered me an apple which he dropped. Than a guy in front picked it up and gave it to me and I took a bite. The apple was delicious very red, juicy and crunchy. By than we had reached the end of the stairs. Than me and my husband got into this small dinghy and started floating in the sea the water was somewhat calm and the sun was shining and in front was a landscape of beautiful building and bridges. Than my husband said to me " if you still want to go with me, you have to accept my system". I accepted it reluctantly but I showed him a happy face and kissed and hugged him. And the dinghy turned back to that building with the rickety stairs. the water was calm, clear but shallow and i could paddle back with my feet.

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Hi Roz,

I can help you with your dream:

the stairs represent your inner reality, the fact that they are rickety means that you may have a tenuous connection to your subconscious. i would take that to mean you have some old beliefs that may need addressing. meditation is good for this.
an apple represents knowledge, again on the stairs indicates inner knowledge, the 2 men indicate possibilities. the sea is your life, the fact that you are in a dinghy suggests that you are a bit prone but the sea is calm the buildings and bridges represent structure and communication, as the landscape it would need to be considered or is being considered, what you have already built (buildings) and what you need to communicate (bridges), the sun represents optimism and sunny outcomes.

the water being shallow says you are not in danger of getting in too deep, and accepting your husband may be the biggest clue here.

Overall it would suggest that your inner feelings are a bit shaky and you may be at a loss to find a solution. there is a need to remember the basis of your marriage and perhaps it is time to build bridges across poor communicatios and misunderstandings. while all at sea you have an opportunity to create something wonderful or you can continue to struggle within the frame. If you are judging your husband, or if you feel he is the one who has to change you may find things do not improve quickly.

Remember everything is possible if we trust enough to try for something we really believe in.

regards
D