That's SO true! It a wonder any cats would bother really "bonding" with or "helping" us in any way ... they're such unique personalities. Love 'em.  

I'm thinking a spirit...and an uneasy one at that. Most homes have a spirit or two and they just keep quiet. Well. Yours seems a bit disturbed. Maybe seeking attention. Or maybe upset with a new renovation or addition to your house. They aren't to fond of change. So yeah..maybe have a local medium come and check out your house. If you do get the medium to drive away the ghost. Believe me. You are NOT the only one with spirits.

Hi Doe


Spirit, I love that, I am my cat's dogsbody lol!

I like the idea that they return to their most pampered existence, that explains the ones round here, and also those that are stuck? Has anyone tried animal spirit release?

Shasha I love that avatar, so fresh Are you really 13, thats amazing typing if you are

I am so happy for all the responses I got.  I actually did call someone the other day and talk about all of this.  She is coming out sometime in June to see if she can figure out what's going on.  Then, yesterday my 14 year old neice emailed me and told me that she "knew" that things were happening at my house.  I didn't tell anyone except you all here on this board and my friend Caitlin because I didn't want people to think that I was crazy.  My neice also said that she had a dream the night before last about an old man.  She said she didn't recognize the old man but he talked to her and told her that he likes doing things at my house because he knows it makes me crazy and he thinks it's funny.  He also told her to tell me that everything happens for a reason and that everything is going to work out soon.  To be patient. It seems like the living and the passed over have all been telling me that lately.  I believe her because like I said, she didn't know about all the stuff that happened.  Plus, when my Grandpa died, she told my sister he died before we even got the phone call.  She said that she had a dream about him too.  She also had a dream about my Uncle that died in 1974 and my Grandma that died in 1957.  She picked them all out of a bunch of different picture I put together kinda like a line up.  She picked them all on the first try.  She didn't even know who they were until I told her about them AFTER she picked them out.  I've been trying to help her with her "gift" because my brother in law is catholic and thinks it's evil.  He keeps trying to tell her not to do it or something bad will happen.  I told her to not tell him anymore and just come talk to me and I'll help her.  She seems to be doing A LOT better now and her gift is getting stronger.

The other night the room mate was on my computer.  He said that he saw a light out of the corner of his eye.  When he looked over at it, the light disappeared but there was a "fog" or a "mist" left behind.  I called my friend and she said that she will come out here to investigate as soon as she can arrange it.  I'm excited about it.  It could be anyone that we have known that has passed on the in the last year or even the last 30 years.  Who knows.  I have a feeling of who it is but I haven't said anything because I want this lady to tell me who she thinks it is.  I told her that we have lost 4 people that were really close to us over the past year or so but I didn't give any other details than that.  We'll just have to wait and see.

I actually have taken some of the advice you all gave me about talking to he/she.  It's funny because we get MORE reaction from them when we talk to them.  When I had the penny thing happen and people told me who they thought it was I addressed her by name and told her that I knew it was her.  Right after I acknowledged her, the pennies stopped popping up on the floor.  But this other one is not mean or scary.  Just irritating sometimes because he/she keeps turning the lights on and off, scaring the dog and making the tv turn off when we are watching something good.  I keep talking to him/her all the time.  I think it is a "him"  So does my friend and my cousin who are psychic.  My daughter also called me yesterday and said that she had a dream about "him" the other night and he told her in the dream that he WAS the one doing it.  He said that he wanted my daughter to tell me that he is watching over all of us and he tries to make sure we are all ok.  He also told her that he likes doing this stuff because he knows it makes me crazy.  So I think it's strange that two different people have come to both my daughter and my neice and told them the same thing.  I actually think it's really cool.