There have been some questions I have been wanting to ask while reading the readings in this forum...which I assume others may be curious about too.  

I hope you will be able to give me your personal opinions if you have time! We would appreciate any.


1) To what extent could psychic/Akashic readings ‘comes true’?  In other words, how do we make sure our next 6 months or so will turn out the way you have read it?  Could we accidentally ‘force’ things to go in a different direction?

2) On the other hand, how much control do we have in changing our future for the better, despite the reading? E.g If a reader tells ‘Ben’ that they cannot see great fame or wealth in his future, can ‘Ben’ end up being hugely famous and wealthy depending on his own choices?

3) Regarding the delivery of readings, how do you feel about using words such as ‘you will’ as opposed to ‘you may’?  Are there circumstances where you feel you’re sure enough to say something in a very definite way?

4) This is a tad more personal. ;) After asking the question above, I’d like to know how you personally like to receive your readings?  I’m not referring to ‘the Internet’ or ‘face-to-face’.  I’m referring to the manner of delivery.

5) What are the main reasons you feel people ask for readings?  What are some ‘wrong’ reasons, if any?

6) How do you feel when people start to become a bit too needy or reliant on your readings?


I'm just wanting to learn more about the experts here and your personal opinions... (as we know you're not just machines churning out psychic readings.   )

I will take the opportunity to give you the answer.

I will start by saying, I am NOT a Robot, and I hope I can say the same about you. We have something that the Robot not have and that is our FREE WILL....we have no predetermined path...it change all the time.

Each moment in your life, you do an evaluation, each moment will each person you interact with do the same.

It must be clear that none can predict every move you do, and every move to those 1000 of people (with cars,prams, you name it)you interact with, will do.

When a psychic connect to you, he she can sense how thing might develop and give you a reading for that.

If you find this Reading of interest, then you can't passive wait for it to happen, you must work for it.

If the Reading is bad, there is no need to be down, all you need to do is to change your path, and your future change with that.

One ask and ask for proof that psychic, and other tools work, and my best answer is, NOTHING of this can give you anything, Nothing of this can take AWAY something for you.

You are the ultimate reader for your life, if you put up goals and work towards them...you might reach them.

If you have no goals, and ask a Reader/psychic for advice, then he/she MIGHT give you those goals, or if you are passive...MIGHT not.

I hope this gives answer to your questions,...I might agree that "may" should be used more often then "you will", but again it's much up to the receiver to evaluate the whole Reading.

Hi,

I have moved your post from the Reading Requests Forum to here, the Discussion Board. I am not sure how our members will feel about answering your 'interview' because I am sure that some may perhaps question the motive and real reason behind it. So I will leave it to them to voice their individual opinions

Thankyou so much for your thoughtful and clear answers, Rhutobello.  

Gem, I hope you don't think that there's some dark motive behind these questions.   I really sincerely just wanted to see things from the side of the readers.  I'm not some lurker-skeptic under disguise.   Perhaps I was a bit too direct in my questions. (It happens!)

Hi Caryna

The We may be a misuse of english but it concernes me if there is a 'we', who they are?



Could be all or nothing



Yes, the very fact of asking for a reading can change the future. A butterfly flapping it's wings in Australia can still cause a wind in England. If a seeker listens to the reader, and asks the right questions, is truthful and open then a reading can be helpful and show influences and trends that might come to pass based on the present energies.



I do not predict when I read, I find that most predictions are limiting and can deny the seeker hope. I do not dictate what will happen either, but sometimes it does not take a psychic to see the future. I use my readings to help and support, offer guidance and most importantly to empower the seeker into making their own decisions from a stronger base



I never use the definitive I always use the wording that skeptics say is 'hedging my bets' lol, but then I am not a fatalist, I believe the future is not set in stone but can be changed..... I do perhaps make sure the seeker realises they are responsible for their own life and that I am not here to make their own decisions, those are their prerogative and domain.



Me, personally, I have rarely ever asked for a reading from anyone else,  I find I am perfectly able to read for myself However, I am intrigued also a bit scared to see what EOT and MangoMom might get from me



Seekers want comfort, help, support, guidance and of course ANSWERS!

Giving away the responsibility for life changing decisions is wrong, as is relying on advice from others and not listening to your own inner wisdom. In my opinion it is far better to empower the seeker, build their confidence, offer support, suggestions and helpful and hopeful advice.



As a reader it can be a fine line, some seekers assume if they are paying for a reading I have to give it, no matter how often. These get a full refund and sometimes follow-up conversations. If I feel someone is vulnerable or as you put it 'too needy' I might say something like now is not a suitable time for a reading but instead offer support.




Clonk clonk Whirrr..... I need oiling lol!

That was fun hahaha!

Many blessings to you,