Thankyou so much for taking out time to share such wise opinions, Lady of Avalon, Boom, Rhutobello and spiritalk.  
Hopefully more people will read all your thoughts as well.  
I sincerely appreciate each answer and feel I now have a better understanding of how to look at psychic readings in general.

Caryna,

I think you have some excellent questions, I can understand if you are not a psychic or "reader" why you would have questions.  I still learn on a daily basis about receiving information and sharing information from the Akashic Records.

Lady of Avalon, any time you would like to receive a reading, all you need to do is ask.  I don't ask for readings from others very often, in fact I probably haven't had an Akashic Reading from another in 3 or 4 years, I have received a tarot reading and an Angel Card Reading last year, those were firsts for me and they were really awesome.



As most others have said, we have free will, that is a gift given to us from the God of our understanding.  Can we change things, I would believe we can, otherwise what is the use of choice?  I believe we can change things, a reading is  1 probability.  Also for clarification, I believe a Psychic or Akashic Reading is the same, we just use different tools to access the information, it all comes from God or that individual Library which was created by the energies of God.


2) On the other hand, how much control do we have in changing our future for the better, despite the reading? E.g If a reader tells ‘Ben’ that they cannot see great fame or wealth in his future, can ‘Ben’ end up being hugely famous and wealthy depending on his own choices?

How do we know that the information was given to say you cannot, just to give that individual the desire/choice to make it change?  Or if the individual is not one to prove them wrong( make it change), the correct information is given.  I believe we are born and we will die, it is up to us what happens in between, due to choices we make.  Some of those choices could have been made by our soul before we entered this lifetime, but most will be made while we live this lifetime.

3) Regarding the delivery of readings, how do you feel about using words such as ‘you will’ as opposed to ‘you may’?  Are there circumstances where you feel you’re sure enough to say something in a very definite way?

I don't like to use the words "you will" but there are times that I do, because that is the information I was given.  When I deliver the information, truthfully, I don't even think, I just type or speak.  If I take the time to think before I deliver the information there is the chance that I am putting a personal spin on the information and that is when I discover I am wrong, because I am putting my interpretation and not the information of the spiritworld.  The information is for the individual receiving it, I am just the conduit, it is not for me to interpret.

4) This is a tad more personal. ;) After asking the question above, I’d like to know how you personally like to receive your readings?  I’m not referring to ‘the Internet’ or ‘face-to-face’.  I’m referring to the manner of delivery.

I tend not to read for myself, I always wonder if I am  interpreting the information or trying to twist it to how I want it to be.  I do like to receive readings from others, I have a large network of friends that are Readers, I do ask them questions now and then.  I do not do readings for my immediate family, I have others do their readings, because I don't want to take a chance that I would be interpreting.


5) What are the main reasons you feel people ask for readings?  What are some ‘wrong’ reasons, if any?

Most people just want to know what is around the corner, if they are on the right track, trying to comprehend their spiritual journey.  Wrong reasons, that would be an interpretation, but I would guess if it were to harm that individual or another individual.  I don't usually have to concern myself with that questions because the RecordKeepers do not hesitate to say "that is not for you to know" or " that is none of your business" or "it is not the time for you to have that information".  

6) How do you feel when people start to become a bit too needy or reliant on your readings?

I explain that readings should be no more than 2 times a year, but usually with the first reading, the individual doesn't understand what questions to ask and I will allow 1 reading in approximately a month after the first then 6 months or maybe anually.  I will not do readings for individuals on a constant basis, that would be taking the joy out of living if you knew what was around the next corner always.  What would be the use of having hopes and dreams?  They would be non existent if we knew everything that was going to happen.  

Thanks for the opportunity to answer questions, I am always open to questions, there are no stupid or dumb questions.  We are all on a journey and no one knows everything.

MangoMom

And thankyou very much for answering my questions too, MangoMom!

I remember a few times, you 'punished' yourself for adding your own interpretation to your readings.  

Thankyou again and it'd be interesting for Lady of Avalon to allow herself to get that reading from you.