Hi there,

I'm having troubles with a man at work. Unfortunately I have to deal with him everyday. The troubles have started recently and its now gotten to a point where I think he is being picky about the work I submit because no one else seems to have a problem with him. I have spoken to my 2ic and she has spoken with his manager who will discuss the matter with him soon.  

Does it sound like he has something personal against me? Its horrible with a work mate becomes a work pain. What do you guys think?

It is unfortunate when you have to work with someone who seems to be drawing an exception to you on some level.  Why not try cutting cords?  Then they can move on and you can move on (emotionally or spiritually) and not keep getting to one another.

Visualize a purple bubble into which you place your problem (people, place, thing).  Then visualize a second purple bubble with yourself inside and connected by an umbelical cord.  Visualize a pair of golden scissors cutting the cords that bind you.

This could work to cut the emotional ties while the physical ones remain in tact for working together.