There is nothing harder than to bury our loved ones, particularly children.  I did not mean to upset you.  My condolences and I trust you find the comfort in your grief that aids the journey.

hi there everyone ,i am  here with a query again .my father in law who was 92 passed over on 16 april ,he was bedridden  in his last 2 months as his hip bone was fractured that could not be operated because of his age and a lot of other ailments also.so death was a relief for him from his sufferings.the day he passed over whole family was at his bedside but i was the only one who who was nervous from the morning i was breathless my hands were trembling and i started crying since morning ,iwas feeling something is going to happen so finally my husband gave me some tranquilisers which doctor had prescribed .here i want to tell that i felt the same way when my daughter went away ,but she was a part of me .but i was not very close to my father in law even some times there were conflicts between us and his daughter his other two sons were there whome he loved very much but they felt nothing they were even preparing to go back .i want to know what is this is this only an intution or something you call the psychic ability  please can someone explain it for me .i will be very greatfull .thank you

Hi, Surinder,

It's nice to hear from you again, and I'm sorry about the loss of your father-in-law.

As I think I've said before, I'm no "expert" on the "psychic" side of things, but I had two thoughts about your post.  First, that maybe your painful experience in losing your daughter, and your probable connection with her since then (even if you arent' necessarily aware of it), might have brought you a little closer to the "other" side of things, so that MAYBE you had more of an awareness of what was going to happen that day.

The other thought was that, simply, your father-in-law's imminent passing (even if you weren't particularly close to him) revived some of the painful, frightening feelings of impending loss and helplessness from when your daughter was sick.  The situation, of course, was very different, but overall might have triggered the grief reactions you had in the past.  As I said before, grief (especially for a child, no doubt) can be a VERY long process--it lies just below the surface for a long time, and it doesn't take much to "dig up" the feelings again.

Those are just my thoughts.  As always, take good care of yourself.  You sound like such a sweet, caring person--things will get much easier for you with time.

Doe

thanks Doe for your rsponce .  Aftr sendng the post i also read that post about psychic awakening symptoms and it became clear to me because i am having many of those symptoms since last year but i always thaught of them at only physical level but never tried to look at the other side . One clairvoint also told me that your daughter is trying to give you some message but you have blocked your mind . Now i think thats true .  if i stay calm and do some meditation may be i will be lucky enough to get the message from other side.  And thanks for your nice complement , i share the same feelings for you . God bless you