read up and learn as much as you can about grounding, protecting, cleansing, chakras and how to open and close them. learn how to meditate and once you have all this in place and practised well you can the start to meditate and ask for your guide to come to you. they will teach you most of what you need to know but it takes time and you have to be patient.

if you can ind a development class in your area most likely with the spiritualist church you will leran alot here too.

most people learn the basics then go on to their own jouney where ever that takes them. its an ongoing journey and lesson.

My uncle called me Wovoka (Native American religious leader) a couple of times when I was young, I did not understand what he was talking about at the time. It is has only been within the last 2 weeks that I realized why he called me that. When I was very young, (I don't remember if I was in school yet or not) I picked up a seemingly ordinary round stone, I threw it down onto another stone that was in a shallow mountain stream. The first stone cracked almost perfectly in half, inside of this stone was black obsidian encased in the stone exterior. I don't know why I cast it down, it just seemed to be the right thing to do. On another occasion I sensed that there was a gift for me in a landfill, I went out into this landfill and opened up a black plastic garbage sack, inside were dozens of My Little Golden Books! I had made a beeline for this bag, it was the only thing that I seemed to see.

It is very comforting to have a handle on one's purpose.