Dear Friend,

I know this must seem like a rough time for you, but you have choices on how you are going to handle this situation. We all get our wounds and depending on how you bandage them is how much of a scar there will be when it is all done.

Everything needs to go through there own healing process. Remember you can't change the past but you can change your own future. And you can't control her actions or what had happenned. That is the blessed thing about karma...what goes around comes around.

I have been in a very similiar situation, where the guy I was dating for 5 years...after I found out he was cheating on me...and thought we could work through it. I decided I couldn't change his ways and he needed to leave...he left me with an empty bank account, a foreclosure, and only the clothes I had on my back. He "got rid" of all my stuff and clothing. And when I came home and saw him doing this he and his police officer friend locked me in my bathroom.... Crazy!!! It took me a very long time to heal from this..and everyday that goes by I am grateful for what I do have, my health, my mind and most of all my breath.

So I understand...it is not easy but you learn and move on or you will never be able to heal this wound.

Hi Dan,

I have never spoken to you, and I don't know you, but I might be able to help some.

I have been through three divorces.

The first one was only because we took different roads when I found God, but it was rough. I had my child abducted, and I didn't even know where he was for two years.

I went from a great paying job at Hewlett Packard, and a four bedroom house with everything, to nothing.

Then, I was abducted and homeless, and then thrown in a mental hospital and mis-diagnosed as crazy after my mother had me abducted through her coven. I was raped, and no one believed me, and all that I had was God. I was also enviornmentally ill, and couldn't even use tap water and homeless. I did get healed.

God did bring me through. It was during the most trying and alone part of my life that I gained the most that anyone could ever ask for. My best friend. And that best friend is God.

It took the rock bottom experience to bring me to a gift that no one can ever take from me, and that is faith. The horrible experience made me strong through the horrible experiences that I have had lateley.

The love and light that this group has brought me have made me sane again.

Just take one problem at a time at this moment. Kick all of the other mind reeling thoughts, and kick them out of your head. The only thing that you can deal with is one thing at a time. It will get better. It is slow. But, it does pass, and you will one day be able to smile again.

I care very much for those falsely accussed. My husband went through domestic violence, and even had staples in his head from her. She even had him arrested for something she did. He had to go to classes. Even though he didn't do the crime, those classes helped him not act out violently now, when that is what the people that have made very bad choices in life want him to do.

So everything that doesn't kill us, only makes us stronger. Dying is no option either because then you will have the same problems for a very long time, but no way to solve them because you will be a displaced spirit. So, just take one thing at a time. Conquer it like a warrior that you are inside.

Pray for mercy all of the time because our Great Creator knows our hearts and the truth. Ask for mercy all day long, or whenever you come across a fearful thought, and watch the miracles happen, and watch a tangible relationship happen with God at this time where you feel all is lost. You will truly have a new beginning coming. You will have peace that no one will be able to comprehend even in the worst of circumstances. It is hard to explain.

I will be praying for the Great Creator to have much mercy on you, and your loved ones. Please keep us updated as how to things are going for you.

Love, Pamela

God Im so scared -- If I get found Guilty of the Lieing Accusations that shes put on me my career is over -- I will never work on Aircraft again -- Why am I being persecuted by her -- Why does she hate me so much??

Pleas help me

Dan

You must understand this world is going though a polar shift...and much like growing pains everyone is hurting and confused...this shift is the result of massive magnetic shifts in this planet and you must relize that it will pass dont be so concerned just give as much love as you can muster...and it will work out...besides what is the worst that can happen you die...big deal..death is just another beginning...just give as much love as you can and it will be ok...PROMISE

Well my court date is 10-19-05 at 1:30PM EST I hope it gets thrown out -- Why do the honest people always lose