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Posts: 9 · Posted: Fri Oct 26, 2007 10:47 pm

I just found out that you can inflict pain on people using your ability.My problem is controlling myself so I don't do that.I have pushed my pain onto other people on complete accident.I don't want to do that anymore.
Can anyone tell me how to 'rein' myself in?

Posts: 1802 · Posted: Sat Oct 27, 2007 12:54 am

Pardon me for mentioning this, but you are still very young and you did not intentionally push your pain onto these other people. To rein in yourself suggests that this ability was under your conscious control, and that you intended to use it to do harm to another person (or persons). I do not believe for one moment that either of these is true.

Our psychic abilities are in themselves neutral - they can either be used to heal or destroy lives. It is the conscious intention behind the use of your abilities that decides in the end which of the two it will be.

Without offering you a formal reading in the appropriate forum, my impressions are that by believing you psychically attacked this other person (or that you even possessed the power to do so) is a large part of your problem. I also feel that the person or persons concerned were at the time this happened in a state of mind which would make the influence of your negative thoughts about yourself that much more powerful than if they had not been in such an emotionally vulnerable state. In other words it was their own sensitivity and not something you did or did not do which was a major part of the problem.

Now as to what you can do personally, I would suggest that for at least the next two weeks that you should stop doing any psychic activity (but continue to visit these MB forums for moral support from your many new friends here) and ground yourself by becoming involved in something outdoors or completely away from thinking about matters to do with the psychic. Work in the garden, visit the great outdoors and learn to relax more and more fully enjoy your life as you see fit to live it. I think that by continuing to go over and over with this in your mind, you are actually making it more likely that it will happen again. Eventually these repetitive thoughts will lose their power over you, and things should return to normal without any further drastic measures on your part.

You are not possessed, you are not going crazy or simply imagining this is happening, but gradually learning to take control of these negative self beliefs requires constant practice and increased awareness, neither of which I feel you are capable of while you are still so seriously disconnected from the other non psychic areas of your life.

Please show as much understanding and compassion for yourself as you do to others. You fell into a common trap in the process of exploring your own psychic nature. You are far from being the first person to believe that your own thoughts have such a power over people, and you will be very unlikely to be the last. We are only to be held responsible for what we are conscious of. Other people are equally responsible for protecting themselves from people who wish to harm them, but you are definitely not such a manipulative type of person, so stop beating up on yourself for something which WAS a complete accident.

Hoping this has been of some help and comfort to you,

eye_of_tiger

PS: Also try the following "auric egg" visualisation technique for a maximum of 10 minutes each day, including over those two weeks off from all other psychic activities. This one IS allowed!

http://www.philhine.org.uk/writings/rit_auricegg.html

Posts: 39 · Posted: Thu Nov 01, 2007 11:29 pm

and also dont forget that when you wish something bad to happen to someone comes back to you 2 fold ............ so best to wish people well in there future and be humble even with those you dont like soo much

Posts: 3143 · Posted: Fri Nov 02, 2007 1:50 pm

Psychic attacks are more about the receiver accepting than the sender sending.

Posts: 6 · Posted: Mon Nov 05, 2007 11:26 pm

I agree with bee07, but I suppose that your intention is not to cause bad things to other people.
Anyway, it's good do "watch" our thoughts because they are really powerful!