I'm a healer... And need help!, Mysticism, reading, forums, Numerology, Sun Signs, Divination

Posts: 17 · Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 1:33 am

Help! I'm stuck in overdrive because my fiancee is very ill. I don't know how to not heal him. Healing from me happens simultaneously when I come into contact with anyone who needs it. I just let all my energy go out and lately due to his illness I've become "extremely body aches all over" and can't heal myself! How do I put a stop to healing him? He's going to meet with doctor's so I don't even really have to heal him right now. Thank you for any help/advice at all!

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 2:28 am

You are a gifted and natural healer, and the fact that you cannot simply choose to turn off your abilities when you are in contact with someone who is ill as your fiancé is only serves to confirm that not only are you a power healing channel, but that you were also meant to be together with this man.

Why then would you wish to turn your abilities off, other than perhaps that by continuing to do this it is at the same time draining your own vital energies, leaving you feeling exhausted?

It is quite common for the healer to temporarily take on the symptoms of her patient, both as an aid to diagnosis of the true nature of the problem, as well as helping the person's healing guides to direct the healing energies to where they are most needed.

If you are plagued by somebody else's symptoms that simply will not go away by themselves, first ask within yourself whether they could possibly be your's all along. It is quite possible for a healer themselves to sometimes become ill (it hardly seems fair), and to make it worse it is often easier to channel healing to somebody other than ourselves.

Once you have ruled out the possibility that these symptoms could belong to you, ask that this other person's symptoms should be removed now that they have served their purpose, and be replaced by a state of increased health and well being.

The only way I can possibly see of you not continuing to be an effective healing channel would be to totally isolate yourself from all living things and other people for the rest of your life. But why would you wish to do that, when this man so badly needs you, and loves you so much?

Your gift of healing is an important part of the spiritual and human being you are now, as well as the person you could potentially become in the future. Please learn to accept this wonderful spiritual gift which has been given to you so freely, rather than attempting to deny or reject it.

Whatever healing support you can provide with your guide's assistance serves to support and complement the help already being given by his doctor. You cannot overdose a patient with too much healing. Any excess energies not needed by that person can be used to help to heal others. Healing energies are never wasted. It is not your place or responsibility to decide that extra healing is not required in your fiancé's case. You are not the source of this healing, but you are only offering yourself as a channel for it to be transmitted from God to your patient. God knows better than any of us what help is needed to restore the person back to a state of health.

Take good care of yourself as well,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 17 · Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 2:38 am

Thank you! Yes, indeed I know that I'm meant to be together with him... although, he is quite different from me! I don't want to turn them off persay... just need to stop feeling as "achy" as I do! I don't know how to replenish my healing or stengths yet.

Ya, I don't think it's possible for me to isolate from the world. I'm a people-person for sure!

I'm not trying to get rid of it... just want to turn the connection off temporarily so that I may regain my strength and not feel as I do.

Thank you once again for your help!

Posts: 4135 · Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 2:52 am

If you find that your own energies are being depleted in the process, this is what is called MAGNETIC HEALING.

True SPIRITUAL HEALING does not use your own energies at all, so a session of this should leave you yourself feeling energised.

When we serve as healing channels for these divine energies instead of using our own, one extra bonus is that our own life force is greatly enhanced as the energies pass through us.

I would suggest that this could be a big part of the problem in your case, in that you are doing magnetic healing instead of channelling healing energies from outside yourself. There are certain techniques that you could learn from either a person who is either already themselves a practising healer, from books or off the web which would help you to learn to channel healing, instead of continuing to run yourself down.

Also look for information about how to psychically ground yourself, as I feel that you are in danger of losing contact with the rest of your life still to live. You will need to balance your work as a healer with the other demands being placed upon you by life? If you have not already done so, consider studying or at least taking a more careful look at learning Reiki.

Hoping this helps,

eye_of_tiger

Posts: 1056 · Posted: Tue Oct 16, 2007 2:58 am

*wonders how EOT does anything but read* That has to be all you ever do... I swear you like know everything EOT!!