Hey....I might not be able to help you as much as you wanted....but I have read EoT excellent reading for you and want to give some comment to this last request.
What I think is the best way to proceed is to buy some books....start to get some input from other who have been in same situation as you.
To develop your psychic abilities are not a snap with your fingers or some "good answers" in a forum.
It takes Meditation....it takes knowledge...which you best attain true books....because then you can study in your own time and get a grasp on it all.
If you do it this way...and find an understanding...you will find that your life become much calmer and your "self-importance" will lessen, which makes your ability to grasp the bigger picture much more easy.
Don't take me wrong....I don't want to prevent you from getting help here...I just wanted to put you on the track that I feel is right in view of your question
Good luck.