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Tyrinaniel
Age: 22 Zodiac: 
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Location: Y-Vegas, North Carolina
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Posted: Tue Sep 04, 2007 3:19 pm |
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From personal experience, let me just state that it's best to worry about the here and now--not the future. From what the others said, I hope you can see that the future changes way too much, and it is influenced by every decision we make. The future is read based on what is happening now. It's never written in stone as far as our relationships with others. We pretty much make our future. Though, worrying about who you will marry at the moment is something trivial, to be honest. I thought I wanted to marry at 18, though I was also manipulated into an unhealthy sexual relationship, basically being his slave. He didn't want me as a partner; he wanted to own me. Now, that's drastic compared to other instances, such as the 2nd time I was engaged. Things just moved too quickly, and the guy wanted a family too soon after we would have been married. It's best to just allow things to flow freely. Don't worry about the future, or you won't enjoy what you have right now. Just be happy. Enjoy each moment with him. If he ends up not being the "one" for you in the future, at least you'll have had something happy to look back on when you're older. You'll wish you dated for fun more often when you get older. It's all about companionship, and learning from the experience.
I know I sort of repeated some things Angelique said, though they are true. I've just learned them the hard way.
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