Hello All,

       One of my very best friends died at the young age of 29 on Friday July 13th 2007. His name was Brett and he was one of the most caring and thoughtfull people I'd ever known. He allegedly commited suicide. He had been at my house the night before & told me he would see me the next day because he was working up the street from me. He left no note, and almost no indication that he was even thinking of doing this to anyone who knew him (he had many friends/relatives that he saw on a daily basis). He was having some financial difficulties, and was sad about breaking up with his girlfriend, but nothing that seemed hopeless (at least to all of us who loved him). If he did commit suicide, then I can accept that is the case. But the coroners office here in town, did not perform a complete autopsy on him because they were all in a rush to leave that very day for scheduled vacations. They basically received the body, chalked it up as suicide, and sent him immediatly to the morgue. Not only does that leave many questions un-answered, it was a violation of the law. But there is nothing that can be done now, because 5 days later, when they got back from their vacations, is when they finally called the family to give them the autopsy report that they had been waiting for by the phone. If his Mother had known on Friday that they had claimed they were finished already with the autopsy, she said herself that she would have told them to do a more thorough job, and would have kept his body around for as long as it took to conclude what exactly had happened, instead he was creamated before she even found out what had happened. I am sick over this, because for closesure we all need to know what the real deal was, and we can't get that information.  

I believe in mediums and spirits, and would love if someone could point me in the right direction as far as someone who might be able to contact him and see what really happened.

I'm sorry if this is not appropriate to post here, I just needed to express this tragedy.

I am not a psychic.....but since you first posted this in "I need a Hug" I will give you and his whole family such a thing.

It's a very tragic situation and for those who experience it and a very hard time of sorrow and blaming for not having seen it coming.

But in reality...there are no blame....how could we know?....you can read a lot about suicide and what they have in common is the "same story" that it happen suddenly and without forewarning that could prevent it. I am sure some gives such forewarning and I am also sure that they will then be helped.....but you can't go around and protect all your "close" ones against suicide because they are feeling down....because we all are in that stage from time to time.

It's sad the way the autopsy was done.....all shall have the same thorough job....and no vacation or other incident shall have any influence on it.
When a person make suicide it's much more important to do a good job. This because family and friends are in the "blaming ourself " and "why" situation.
When there is option for doubt, then this will lead thoughts upon another track...and even if it takes away a little about "why" and "blame" it will put in a new thought....is he/she been killed.
This thought will then never be answered and one will suffer far more in length then by accepting the "fact" given.
The coroners people deal with such cases a lot....and even if no one is faultless....if they had any doubt about the event...they would not have released the body.

Another Big Grandpa Hug to you and a hope that you will find peace to this problem.

It feels more like misadventure than suicide.  In a funk he might of done something rather dangerous to his wellbeing.  He regrets his actions.  As his life is cut short, he will be working (spiritually) to make up for it.  He is free of his pains and sorrows, but must relieve his own mind of these things as well.

thank you, thank you for both of your kind words!!  I feel the same way spiritalk, what you said is exactly how i perceived what happened to him. Thanks to the both of you for sharing your thoughts.

My condolences for your loss. It is a very tragic situation. However i have grown to learn that those who have passed don't go very far. They are constantly around us, at least their energies are. I've been told once that they is apparently a 'waiting period' of 14months before contacting the spirit of someone that has passed. I may be wrong, but maybe someone on these boards can clear this up.