you are in my heart and prayers.
my condolences.

mtthwoh,

I was reading your post without looking at the dates, and I was going to say that the advice of everyone here was really perfect, and that you were wonderful to give so much thought to her needs.  It's clear that she passed knowing that she was loved and will be missed; I believe that that's the most important gift that anyone can give to someone who is dying.  I know that she went in peace.

And just know that it's NOT the end for your mother; it's just another stage of her existence.  Talk to her (you don't have to do it out loud)--she will hear you, because she will always be with you.  Even if you don't see or feel it, just know that it's true.

Take care of yourself; grieving can be a long road, even under the best of circumstances.  And always feel free to write us here, for any reason.

All my best,

Doe

Thank you all for the condolences, I know she is still around and when she is ready she'll let me know. Death is not the end of life. I had enough experiences to convince me.

Hi Mtthow
Yes she calls in to see you first thing in the morning when you sleep and some times when you are really sad during the quiet time of the day.
The love you gave to her and the time spent to help her cross over has made everything better for her on the other side.
There is a unsaid thanks that goes out to you for the love and patience that you displayed.
Cheers Pete

Thank you Pete, that made me feel good.