urges (i have many) just kidding  

this whole topic is all i truly believe in, i always say go with your gut feelings, they will never lead you wrong. and i believe that with every fiber of my being. my head tells me something, and my gut tells me different. i never hesitate to go with my gut. i read a book called the gift of fear. it had stories of ppl that lived through all kinds of things. one women was rapped, right afterwords, the man got up and closed the window. he told her he wasn't going to hurt her, and to stay in the bedroom, he was going to leave. when he walked out of bedroom she silently got up and walked right behind him. he turned into the living room, and she turned and walked out the front door.  

now, sitting with the author of the book he's asking her how she had the courage to do something like that. she keeps saying she doesn't know, and he's pointing out things that her gut was picking up on. which in turn saved her life. it turned out that he was a serial rapist and had killed all his victims. her fear had picked up on little things, like why would he tell her he wasn't going to hurt her, he already had ? why say anything at all? why would he be concerned about shutting the window after he rapped her?  I don't explain it very well. but her unconscious mind picked up on these things, giving her the courage to save her own life.

my point being always pay attention to what your feeling, if your not paranoid  , their's a reason behind it. even when your feeling fearful and scared. these are not necessarily bad emotions. why are u feeling them?