in just joined im new here i have a question i need answered will the love of my life come back to me i miss him, and does he have someone new in his life?

Welcome to the forum, I hope you meet lots of new people.

I think your know the answer to that question yourself, trust your gut reaction.  You will be feeling a million emotions just now and all negative.  Its hard to move on but even if they do come back you have trust issues to contend with.  The love of your life would not have walked out on you.

Suzi

Hi Tara

I did a 3 rune cast (you were probably looking for tarot, and the site has tarot readers here, to be sure, but I am only adept with the runes).  Anyway, the 3 runes are a past, present, future type of reading.  Not knowing enough about you, I just asked the runes what you could expect.  Here's what was cast:

The past: Sowilo
I believe the interpretation here is success, that things were going extremely well.

The present: Jera
A time of peace and happiness.  I suspect that the rune here indicates the present prior to the break up.

The future: Hagalaz
This represents loss, suffering and hardship.  This seems to indicate that he probably won't be coming back and it would not be to your advantage to pursue him.  Hagalaz is associated with violent or uncontrollable forces, so I suspect that something is definitely wrong somewhere with him.  I also have to echo Suzisco, who is a very smart lady and knows people.  If she counsels moving on, then that is probably the smart thing to do.  Nice having the runes validated by Suzi's wisdom.

thank u so much for your help i figured as much and i was wondering did he find someone new? and did he ever love me?

Attuning to a 3rd party is not really ethical.  His emotions and feelings are of little consequence to your own personal healing.  

When something ends and your thoughts are on returning to the past...consider....what has changed?  What needs to change to make a relationship viable is the consideration...not the emotions that are based in fears.