Thankyou for your reply.  Im Unable to as them if they would like to book in for a second Intuitive session like you mentioned but that is a wonderful idea and one that I can still use and ask if as they are still effected by the reading/life that they can come back to me another day and I can give them a session of reiki or assist them with a guided one on one meditation.  Thankyou so much the idea is perfect I just hate leaving people at their most vulnerable.  Generally i allow for half an hour over hang after a reading but sometimes I just dont have the extra time to devout to them so I love being able to still help them along with your wonderful idea.
Thanks for your time,

Hi Spiritalk,  
You as so right when you say that a spiritual reading can go on because its about comfort and the gift we give to others is the way we are able to let them express their grief.  As I have found that when a person has a Mediumship reading they release emotions and thoughts they would never have admitted or brought up in counselling or with psychologists.  They are raw and very open and vulnerable and this makes me aware I have much responsibility for their wellbeing.  So everytime I have a reading when the loved ones come through I have a lot of pressure on myself (imposed by myself) to make sure I get it right and done with the upmost respect of my sitter and their loved ones in spirit.
I used to be an ambulance officer and go to horrific scenes and yes I would become nervous, the adrenalin pumping but I knew what to do and how to control the scene.  I know that everytime I read for someone I feel I'm holding their emotions in my hand and thats quite a responsibility to make sure you hold those tenderly and respectfully.
My whole fear of how do I end this reading is due to the fact that I usually dont but on this case I had to leave as I had extended it by 30 - 40 mins and my family were waiting in the car for us to go on our trip for christmas.  It tore me to leave when my sitter was like this she had become  more composed and I gave her the card of a friend whos a counsellor should she need it.  'Gem'  Gave me a wonderful idea in asking her to re-book another reading I will only do two at the most in a year but realised I can offer them a session of reiki or one on one meditations.  Which enables me to make sure than in the week after my reading my sitter is coping better or so I know to refer her to someone else more qualified than myself if she needs it.
Thankyou so much in taking the time to reply and help me out
Thanks

Thankyou in taking the time to read and reply to my post.  I do have much difficulty in winding up a session when my sitter feels so empty and that they are using this reading almost like a last straw as they dont know what else to do.  So when Four loved ones come through with love and words it can bring them so much comfort and they cry happy tears the entire time but when the sitting comes to an end they feel they are again losing their loved ones as the person relaying the news is leaving and i feel this is what my client may have been going through.  So I sat with her for over 30 mins and was her ears and listened.  I had to leave after this time as I had squeezed her in to start with and she was aware of my time constraints but she was emotional and within her rights to be feeling only her own thoughts.
I am actually considering doing some couselling courses so I can learn how to wind up a session without harming an emotional client and leaving them feel like I have severed their lifeline.
I worked on ambulances and understand grief and loss, I also have lost but everyone feels it differently and those that lost a long time ago just find it hard if after such a long time they are reunited as such for minutes to only have it end again.  Some sitters rejoice in the news become empowered and that helps them move on and regain purpose and find their individual way.  With others it can make it worse for them and they just want the connection re-established and lose themselves.
So once my gorgeous little boy is able to atend school, he is autistic and requires extra tuition before we can send him to classes so once he attends school with his sisters I'll then be on my way to doing some courses.  You know I'm going to look into that life line one, its a must because in my dreams last night someone was telling me all about them and how they will guide you and instruct you then you get the hands on work once your able.

Thankyou for your time in replying to my posts.
As for my readings I'm usually not so straightforward when its face to face as the sitter has many questions and issues but on here its usually just the one question and that pops straight in with me and i feel it quickly so its easy to answer.  those though with more complicated questions or a basic full reading usually requires me to have their full name D.O.B and the counrty so I am sure i'm getting the right energy.  Then I sit back and wait for my guides to hook up someone over there or the persons own guides to speak so I can type it in.

Thankyou again,

Can I suggest on other simple thing....when someone has been fit in, tell spirit that it is important but so is your family.  Could they help with the situation.  Yes, there is grief and someone can take advantage of your good nature, but all in all, spirit has a way of ending that you would never imagine.

Wow Of course why didnt I think of asking that?  Thankyou it seems so obvious once you say it and yet I never asked if they could help with that problem.  So many times I am so deep in helping the other person that I forget to ask my own guides and spirit to help me.  I can feel them saying  'Finally now we can get some more work done around here!"
Thanks for your wisdom