have you tried asking this person out? do they not notice you, because you haven't made yourself known? if you have tried and they turned you down, then yes, it will hurt for awhile. or at least until you find someone else that you like. if the latter of the two is the case, then know that the universe has someone better for you. i don't mean a better person then the one you like. just someone that's better suited for you. everything happens for a reason. this will give you some strength and another experience in your life. there not always the greatest experiences. but we must go through them all, to grow. just think in 6 mons. from now this will probably look like no big deal.
but if you have never asked her out, or talked to her? then try that first.

hope this helps,
blackcat

but blackcat i am afraid to talk to her. I just want to be her friend thats it. i don't want a relationship with her but then too we just walk past each other and not say anything....i doubt if she notices me..but i would like to be her friend but im afraid 2 say anything 2 her.  

Ah brother, u seem to be going through the same problem as me, just that mine is online & urs is in R/W (Real World). But mine is love, that is for sure.

I will tell u this. First write down in a paper, what u like about her, & what u don't like about her.. then write why u like her, or why u love her, the reason, or intentions or whatever u can call it, write it down. Then write what u expect for her. What u want from her, & what are u going to do for that.

I met a girl online, didn't see her face or anything, just fell in love with her on day one, (everyone but me knew that). Over a period of time, when I spoke to her, saw her pic, got to know more about her life (both good & bad), my resolve to love her was growing stronger & stronger. There was obviously some connection between us. Once I did realise that I love her, I kept tellin all my friends, how I am not worthy enough for her. & then wrote a big letter to her & sent it to her, expressing my love, (by email, i was too chicken to tell her on the messenger). Even till today I am not sure if she has read it or not (i sent it in July). The girl was still speaking to me as nothing had happened.

But in the letter I had clearly mentioned that I do love her & would do anything for her, but all I wanted from her was that I didn't want to lose the friendship we had if she didn't feel the same. That is all. I was (& still am) serious enough to marry her. But my happiness is in seeing her happy.

When she didn't reply, or for that matter didn't even acknowledge the letter. I felt very hurt, very sad & was moping around everywhere, to the extent that I got on the nerves of Samson, rutho, swetha, maybe even Nicole & couple of others, & 2 other friends of mine, one online & the other in the R/W.

But I have decided to move on, I still don't see myself worthy for her, but I am there for her anytime, anyday. All I want from her is her friendship & trust, that is all. I am happy now. I am speaking to her on the messenger & I am not hurting anymore. I am just happy that she is there. I will never forget her, (who can forget their first love), but I am not longer running behind her.

You have a plus point my friend. You are there near her, u can see her, u can hear her voice, u can feel her presence, I can't.

Just be your self, don't try to show off or try to be like a macho. Just be yourself, see if she needs help in anything & if she does, offer it to her. Be her friend. Then after that, it is the karma of u both. & yes plz never act as a jerk (I know u wont) & always respect her. Girls like good guys, the sweet & sensitive guys, (not the macho ones or the bad boys or the one who has loads of money). Just be your self, have self-confidence in yourself & stay calm.

If she was meant to be, she will be. otherwise u can still have her as a friend.

I don't know if my sob story was useful to u or not, my (two cents) piece of advice was useful to u or not, but I didn't mean to offend u in anyway. Hope this helps u. Best of Luck.

oh vishwas your first mistake is thinking you are not worthy of someone. a self-fulling prophecy is something you can make happen if you believe it enough and u keep putting it out into the universe. so stop saying your not worthy of anyone. we are all the same. human beings learning what we have to here on earth.

lmtha, life is short and living with wondering what might have happened sucks. i know from experience. maybe she likes u and is also scared. someone needs to jump start this conversation between the two of u. you already have it in your head that she doesnt want anything to do with u, and she doesnt even want to be your friend. if this is true then you are a great psychic. i think your making your self more and more nervous to approach her. start out slowly, you say you pass each other a lot. do u even look at her? or do you look at the floor or straight ahead? it can start with u just smiling at her and saying good day in passing. she if she smiles back. every time u pass her smile and look into her eyes. don't leer at her or anything like that. just keep it simple. after do this for awhile, offer her a stick of gum or a mint while passing her. don't stop just offer it and keep waking. you should be able to get a little more perspective on how she feels by doing this. no one says u have to drop on one knee and confess your ever ending love for her. it all can start with a smile.

keeps us informed.
blackcat

Hi

The best advice I can give to you is:  "Do not do something to those which you do not want done to yourself".  There is ways that you can do that but the thing is that it is not right to do it and also I am sure that you will feel guilty that you did it in the first place.  Anyways, wouldn't it feel better if the person liked you naturally without having to do something to force the person to like you.  Only time will prevail the person which is meant to be with you, fait has a strange way of bringing the right person (soul mate) on your path.  What you may try is to consentrate on positive energy!!  Get rid of that negative thought you have and try to be more positive.  Very important:  THE MORE POSITIVE ENERGY THAT YOU ATRACT, THE MORE POSITIVE THINGS WILL HAPPEN TO YOU!!

I wish you the best of luck!!