hehehe with the cat.  I liked that!

Blackcat...whether strong or weak...the message needs to be said.  That is the inspiration that you receive.  When it is strong, the reader can always go back and read it again if they want, before responding.  The more we read through something, even when we find it harsh, the more we get the message.  

I, too, have been accused of being too strong.  What is too strong?  It is when we have a point and don't stop to flower it, IME. And sometimes there is a reader who just needs it without the flowers.

The question was posed to think about who and what you are.  Being different is a good thing.  Worrying about being different can be debilitating to your own growth.  We are all unique and individual beings.  Vive l'difference!

Vive la difference!

hey, just want to thank everyone again for their wisdom and for helping me! I really apreciate it...I have become a whole new person because of ya'll and 4 dat i aam eternally grateful. But about my love...i still can't stop thinking of them...how do I stop because I don't want to be CRAZY in Love with someone that doesn't even notice me half the time and cares nothing for me?

Well if you are in love with a person and that person don't share your love, then you will have heart sorrow for a while.
There are no easy way....we are all different ...song about the same are sung all over the world...you are not the first who have heart sorrow and will not be the last...

You must try to put the person out of your mind, I know it's more easy to say then done, but you can never force anyone to love you, and the only way you can befriend her is to treat her with respect....all other ways will fail...and then you just make a fool of yourself.

Good luck.