I would like to learn more about the bonds that join us to other people. What are they? Always I feel it in the centre of my chest, but not always with emotion. Anyone like to tell their experiences?

Here are mine:

I had a strong bond (love) which I did not feel form, but which was "torn away" when I sent him away from me to be with someone else.  A broken heart?  It left my inner energy bleeding out of me.

When I met the man I married, I bonded to him: I felt doors open in my chest, and something came out and fastened to him.  At the time I was very low and needed someone.  (The marriage didn't work out, and the "ties" slowly disintegrated.)

I met a man casually one day, playing pool.  I thought we were just passing time with a game (I play against lots of people, I don't expect strange things to happen).  But as he spoke to me after the game, I suddenly felt a "zap" in the centre of my chest, and he had fastened on to me!  (A short but intense relationship developed months later, after he "pursued" me.)  At the time, I wasn't really noticing him at all until that happened.  Then I looked at him curiously, and thought: "Who are you?"

Has anyone else registered these energy bonds?

People, throughout history, have often considered phenomena such as “love at first sight” or “instant friendships” to be the result of an uncontrollable force of attraction or affinity.One of the first to theorize in this direction was the Greek philosopher Empedocles who in the fourth century BC argued for existence of two forces: love (philia) and strife (neikos), which were used to account for the causes of motion in the universe. These two forces were said to intermingle with the four elements, i.e. earth, water, air, and fire, in such a manner that love, so to say, served as the binding power linking the various parts of existence harmoniously together.

Later, Plato interpreted Empedocles’ two agents as attraction and repulsion, stating that their operation is conceived in an alternate sequence. From these arguments, Plato originated the concept of “likes attract”, e.g. earth is thus attracted towards earth, water toward water, and fire toward fire. In modern terms this is often phrased in terms of “birds of a feather flock together”. Later, following developments in electrical theories, such as Coulomb's law, which showed that positive and negative charges attract, analogs in human life were developed such as "opposites attract." Over the last century, researcher on the nature of human mating, such as in evolutionary psychology, agree that pairs unite or attract to each other owing to a combination of opposites attract, e.g. people with dissimilar immune systems tend to attract, and likes attract, such similarities of personality, character, views, etc.In recent years, various human bonding theories have been developed described in terms of attachments, ties, bonds, and or affinities.

Yeah, with some friends, both in real life & online, i feel bonded to them, but i didn't get the same feeling as u do. but I did.

& one love one too, don't know how others will react (Samson) if I start talking about it again, but that was one too, trusted that person on day one, loved her as a friend, & later loved her the other way too, without ever meeting her. But I think she maybe for someone else, I am trying to move on (Especially with help & advise from my friends here), but I was & am bonded to her, that was for sure, & everyone, including both online & inlife friends & even my sis detected my feelings for her, even before I did.

What happened from Dumdum to kalighat,I know very well viswas,From Kakinara to Dumdum,there was a local train,I feel in first time,and made first time,that she is mine heart,and after that time to to today,from 1973 to today she is mine and I am her,Today we are not two but today we are 8 members in my family.

WOW, that is cool, congrats sir, always nice to hear a successful love story.