Hello,

I am going through a very trying time at the moment trying to get pregnant again after a miscarriage... I have a lot of mixed emotions as we are to start IVF in january.  Yet it's not sure what is wrong if anything.

I am finding it hard to follow what I want...  I am happy to do the IVF to help speed up this emotional rollercoaster..
but call it gut instinct or maybe just hesetation but I still think we can do this on our own without help.

I have so many nightmare about miscarraige that have suddenly changed to dreams about having 3-4 yearold children but still No babies.

Will I ever get pregnant ? is something medically wrong that will be discovered soon ?

all guidance apreciated..

Try this prayer before you rest your head at night and as you wake in the morning.

Prayer for Motherhood
Good St. Gerard, powerful intercessor before the throne of God, wonder-worker of our day, I call upon you and seek your aid. You know that our marriage has not as yet been blessed with a child and how much my husband and I desire this gift. Please present our fervent pleas to the Creator of life from whom all parenthood proceeds and beseech Him to bless us with a child whom we may raise as His child and heir of heaven. Amen

Blessings

We manifest that which we concentrate upon...in this case, you are manifesting your fears.  Relax!  I know, I know, easier said than done!

Try some relaxation exercises to get yourself calmed down.  A good mediation for relaxation is a beach of lapping water...we are made up of a large percentage water and this is one way to get in touch with our core water.  Feel the lapping...hear it...see it, use all your senses to be in touch with lapping water.  Allow it to calm you down.

The more relaxed you can become, the less your decisions and thoughts will be from fears.