Well Noobix told what I wanted to say. But I will stress on the last point, Make them want ur help.

& I didn't know what to say to this, so kept shut, but I think it is better for me to say this, Abhishek, whatever deb said, regardless of that, she still sees u the same way & her love for u hasn't come down.

It is just that Deb is more worried about the other friend at the time being, as u are capable of taking care of urself & expressing urself, which I think the other person isn't doing.

That is my half a cent of advice, plz both of u don't kill me for that later.

People are connected to each other, and like often attracts like. I have noticed reading tarot that cards often come up for the people I read for that have relevance to me as well. Therefore Abhi and your friend might be trying to tell you something as well. And, for that matter, me!

I hope the problem is resolved.

Edit: this often happens to me around November, the time when a lot of people suffer from SAD (seasonally affected disorder). However my best friend had an accident which stressed me out in Nov 1994 and so it might also be what they call "cell memory" - the trauma of that event is so great that it imprints itself onto the body and recurs when the time or event recurs. Just before I went to Poland a few years ago I was hospitalised with a heart murmur that turned out to be the aggravation of a "short circuit" in my heart by some anti-depressants I was taking. I went back for another short visit eighteen months later, and while I was in a restaurant with my mother a few days before, I had the same heart palpitations even though I had changed my medication and had been "clear" of any trouble with my heart since I had been hospitalised. It passed off without incident - lasted about 5 min whereas the last attack lasted 45 min-1 hour! - but my body - or mind - obviously "associated" going to Poland with having a heart murmur a few days prior to leaving!

My body now associates vodka with poisoning.  One night I got myself royally wasted on vodka, and somehow managed to throw up ON but not IN two toilets at the same time, despite them being seperated in stalls.  From what I'm told I kept passing out and trying to walk through walls - not that I was trying to walk through it, but rather that I just didn't understand the concept of "wall" :P.  I guess the only saving grace of that night is I don't remember it, just the way I felt for the next week or so.  So much throwing up that I'm sure I was crapping out stomach lining for a week, and I was left feeling as week as a kitten from the intense abdominal workout it gave me.  Now, whenever I taste vodka, I immediately start to feel sick.  It's a real shame too, vodka was my favourite drink.

Edit:  I'm not advocating alcohol poisoning as a means of toning up flabby abs  

O Deb take back your heart my dear it belongs to you not your friend, also take back your power she also has that too, the message here, is, if you don't, there will be depression,following and you will be no damned good to either of you. Your conversations have become one, meaning the substance to them cannot move either of you forward now. Your ability to soak up your friends vibrations allows her to sleep and not you.  To help her now is to listen and say no more, she will then realise that you as her friend cannot provide the energy to continue like you have done for so long.   Bye...

what noobixcube says is true.. the other person must b ready to b helped... unless that person accepts it..noone can do anything. u can just let him know that u r always there for him.