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spiritalk
Age: 69 Zodiac: 
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Location: Etobicoke, Canada
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Posted: Mon Jun 13, 2011 1:52 pm |
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Ride the winds of those upheavals they will bring you joy and direction. No one is ever 'stuck' anywhere - unless they choose that position. There are always alternatives. Don't give up your autonomy (power) to anyone else in the decisions of your life. Your ship of dreams is coming in - get on board of your own dreams.
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pallycoo
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Posted: Mon Jun 13, 2011 3:20 pm |
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The reason I feel stuck in the relationship aspect is that my husband is going through alot right now and has said he no longer wants to be married. I of course do not want this but I feel powerless to stop it. Which makes it feel like I have no say or not able to make decisions when it comes to us. He is apart of my dreams, more than anything I want my family to be together.
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spiritalk
Age: 69 Zodiac: 
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Location: Etobicoke, Canada
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Posted: Tue Jun 14, 2011 3:14 pm |
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Just as an exercise ask yourself.......do you want a husband? That is actually the first priority in the whole situation.
Or do I want family? This is perhaps the outcrop of the relationship and would be devastating to lose at this point.
But I have to say they are important questions to be asking yourself. What are you struggling to hang on to and is it worth it in the long run?
BTW children blame themselves for all things - so it will be hard to keep this balanced. No bad mouthing each other is the key.
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