Hi Sky,
A big welcome to the site
I'm Tammy aka StormGirl Blue, and seriously I'm already glad to have met you.

Your age 21 photo is showing up as a very low resolution photo here, but your energy is strong so I believe I am still able to tune into it. lol, if Im wrong I'm not blaming the photo quality.

In your youth Im seeing someone who is already quite mature for her age. Someone that isnt exactly a stranger to lifes challenges.  There is an innocence here, someone who has experienced a loss of someone near, but also accepting in a way unexpected of someone so young. You want to know why, and know there is a reason, you accept but it still hurts. Your aware but still your human.
This young lady believes her life is mapped out or you see your life ahead. and that she is supposed to do what is expected of her even though a part of her isnt entirely at home with the idea. You expectt something unexpected to happen, lol, I know that contradicts itself, but Im sure you know what I mean.

Your clairvoyant or medium.. spirit energy is around you

The change in you isnt anything I would not expect.
The young lady has become the goddess.
It is said some people improve with age. you are a perfect example of this.
Your wondering has become knowing.
You are in control of you, whereas younger you was kind of waiting to take control. I think you always knew you would, perhaps a little afraid of the change that you knew would take place.. but seriously this is where you are meant to be and you know it.

You like you now, are comfortable with who you are.
Your not so unusual that you are immune to hurts, you are still a woman after all.. but a woman in control someone young ladies should aspire to be. inner peace and strength.

The truth is that you haven't metamorphosed from one person to another, you have grown to be who you always were, you found her.

You are free to be you now, the restrictions are lifted.
You were a little before your time in younger you and perhaps felt like a fish out of water. But not any more.

Like every 21 year old you had a map of your life.  The universe just not always see it so you were in for some real surprises.  

There is a seriousness that belies your age.  You took on too many challenges at a young age and wear the scars of disappointment and betrayal.  Life was really hard to get you to 21, so you want to go forward with renewed strength in the emotional arena of love.

At 55 you realize how foolish was this little girl of 21 and how much she had yet to learn.  Yes, a lot of lessons came early but they only prepared you for the tough stuff of later life.  They were nothing compared to the challenges you were yet to face.  

The eyes, the windows to the soul, are full of love.  You have turned all those challenges into learning experiences and weathered all storms.  You know you can weather anything now and feel prepared for the worst.  But you do not anticipate anything.

Its as though you are a small craft in a big storm.  You just do what needs doing to keep you afloat and do not worry about what the next cloud will bring.  You are prepared to stay in the now of what needs doing.  

You wear hats (and like them) because they tend to protect the crown.  While I don't do a lot of work in chakras I would say you feel vulnerable in your spirituality.  The secret is not to protect the crown so much as allow the flow from the highest source (God) to enter and permeate the whole being.  When all your sensitivities can manifest out of your big toe, you are flowing with God and source.  Practice being a clear channel of energy.

Are you 55 or 43? Because the age above your Zodiac sign says 43. :P