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Posts: 42 · Posted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 12:48 am

There's gotta be a reason! To eccentric? To boring? To undatable? Just look and for the love of god tell me why these women keep wanting me to be their best friend but never date me? All I want is to goto the damn Zoo with them and have abit of fun, for cryin out loud! Twice I've had women that wanted me to accommodate them while I was left waiting for their call, but no more! So do I ever meet anyone or is it a lost cause :(

I took these a week ago, also anything else you pickup is fine :\

http://img44.imageshack.us/img44/4786/headglasses.jpg
http://img200.imageshack.us/img200/7522/headnoglasses.jpg
http://img96.imageshack.us/img96/8569/outside.jpg

Posts: 112 · Posted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 1:33 am

As per your soul, I see you are compensating "work". In your pastlives, you were Very VERY physical and worked hard. This life is not near as physical, but it is in your NATURE to work hard, so you are working hard at pushing relationships. This is toxic. The girls you are approaching are submissive, but so are you; those don't match. You need to learn to use "No" more. Make things your way, don't be so submissive.

Posts: 42 · Posted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 1:41 am

Alright, I'll do my best :| I have been using it more just it seems to kinda not be getting me where I wanna be lol I said no to this girl and she just kept pushing this "best friends" idea, anyway yea I see your point there :| Any advice how to overcome my submissiveness?

Posts: 112 · Posted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 8:40 am

To start, understand that you don't have to have another to make you feel complete. Just do your thing. The more you force something to you, the further it pushes away and that is for everything in your life. You don't need anyone to make you happy, you need to find an inner peace to make yourself whole first. Try meditation, and stop pushing the issue. For you, things come when you stop looking; sort of like when you forget about it, it shows up. Like a lost shirt or keys to the lawnmower. You know what I mean?

Posts: 42 · Posted: Sat Oct 03, 2009 9:26 am

That's true, I understand what you're saying about not needing anyone else to feel complete, I shouldn't :| Yea usually things show up you're right, but I'd hoped maybe I'd find it soon rather than later, it sorta feels like I might never find it now. I did back off alot on this most recent interest but it still fell apart :\ I'll do my best :D