I'm having a bit of a crisis in my mind.. I dont feel like my usual happy self lately and sort of feel like im stuck in a rut with my partner.. help! am i in the right place?

Well you woke up a month ago and realised that the best thing since sliced bread you met a few years ago has turned into a
muffin. and it was so gradual you almost didnt see it. Hes a good guy but like most males we just get set in our ways.
Your not a person that likes to be too staid or regular as boredom kills and its been a while between holidays.You seriously need to find a sinfully warm place and kick back in a sun lounge to clear your soul.
This darkness you feel in your soul is affecting the spiritual side of you. Someone you know passed a little while ago and you have been dweling on the whole life, the universe and how small things get. Is there more to life .. yes and its 90 % attitude and 10 % leap of faith in your self and your capabilities. You are a wonderful lady who can just get up and rock .. You just forgot to keep it simple and fun.
Start your day tomorrow with a unselfish act and see your day change. for the better. little steps will make you come back to yourself.
Cheers Pete

If you feel stuck in a rut then the answer has to be a resounding NO?  But ask yourself why and if you can improve things before jumping out of the frying pan. There may be a simple way of sorting yourself out, although at 21 I thought I know everything there was to know about relationships I did realise that once I had doubts about a partner then that was it, the start of the slippery road to oblivion and being hurled back onto the market of dating and scrutiny once more. There is a perfect relationship out there for you, but sadly perhaps not this one, certainly don't let it stop your beautiful smile, you have so much love to give and love is precious and should be appreciated and shared and then returned

A muffin? Pete that is the most technical term I have ever heard yet lol.