Hi, mifan2013

Yes, its possible to get possessed not just by ordinary spirits but not usually by meditation. Meditation taps into divine assistance hence before you contact God you are already creating a protective barrier around you. It may be possible to get possessed if there is a strong negative presence in the area though and you lack the know-how or were lousy enough to think you can handle such.
The third eye can be awakened in a variety of ways and meditating on it is possible. There is a mantra that is useful for this but we are on the wrong section for that.
Ha ha, I haven't been possessed and never would I want to be to. The subjects that I know of usually don't know they've been possessed when they awaken from such and feel very tired as if they journeyed far.
Astral travel is indeed possible and seeing chakras and the inner chi too. And yes, you can use energy healing then to heal folks or even send messages to them. The tricky thing about this is that if the healer isn't experienced enough he may not realize that there may be a dark force in the background inducing such pain to the subject. There are also guardians especially those on those with untapped potential - ha ha, encountered one and was smiting it but it was just grinning at me silly.
The key to helping others through such means is not by directly be the healer but as the medium. You use nature and yourself (and others if your with folks with a common purpose) to tap into the divine assistance and let Him or His soldiers/healers administer that healing touch.
The best way for you to realize quickly your gifts is to go to places where people converge to open their problems and dreams. Churches are one. Hospitals are another. Try to avoid for now going into jails or police stations as those have quite a lot of negative energy which newbies may find quite shocking.
Avoid at all costs going into places that have serious negative history such as places of disaster and even haunted ones. Those are areas where the chances of getting possessed even if you do nothing save pass by are high.