Oh, spirits will visit you either in sleep or while you're awake.  It seems pretty common when you're in bed.  Typically you're alone, and they can try to contact only you in that case.

Are you doing something new, pursuing something new in your life?
If so, you may have a new Spirit Guide.
I would say this one is trying to share something with you.
You may have a more defined or totally new psychic/spiritual gift.  This Spirit may be trying to talk with you about it.
Set good realistic boundaries and then find the time to sit down and talk with this Spirit.  
If in your heart they feel safe, keep talking with them and find out what is going on.
I learned a long time ago, a persistent Spirit is going to get the message to me, one way or another.  
I just listen now.  It's easier.


Oh, yes, I have asked a Spirit Guide to leave and asked for another one to replace him.  I was not comfortable with him.  I also do set some boundaries.  They are respected unless there is something that I just have to know NOW.  I also have had unsavory Spirits come to visit.  I have sternly asked them to leave.  They did, no problem.

Just be clear whether this is a scary one or one who just scared you.  There is a difference.

i have been having these dreams since i was nine or ten. but one point of time when i move here in CA i was having them a lot and they started to get fewer over time. and know the dreams just go once in a while.

 thank you for your advice i would shure try it.