Candlea
Many times when we are near spirits that have not gone over, they can take our personal power threw our fears. Fears come from not knowing what is going on. And power leaving us in that manner has no intent in it, no dirrection. This is how some waywards can move objects make sounds and go bump in the night. No fear dear.
There is another group of spirits that have gone over or into the light. Some are allowed to help us or even become guides. And others have never lived here on earth. Some of this group have to bump up our energy or our vibration before they can interact with us. Lets just say that some of them have to be met half way, because they are at a much higher vibration than we are.
And for those spirits that just come to drink of your power, it is simple, just sour the milk so to speak. If you have no fear than they can not drain you. To sour the milk, you add good intensions to your personal power and let them have all that they want. Program the energy to show them the truth about themselves. Program the energy with love in it.
Anytime I give freely, without strings attached for personal gain, and programed for another person greater good, then spirit or source always fills me back up with more than I gave.
Ishathota

My family all have had experiences, from my Grandmother who was born on Halloween, who used to charm peoples warts away, to my Mother, who sees visions of people before they die, and events before they happen, sees ghosts, and myself, i have seen ghosts, have dreams which come true, and if i am somewhere there may be a dangerous person, i can sense it, or if something bad has happened even on a corner of a road, i can sense that too.
Silver Unicorn (Ireland)

boy this has been along time when i posted this sorry about not posting back life has been hectic now alittle more peaceful that is why im back, My gifts have been getting stronger and started reading tarot and playing cards alot more experieced now then before thank you for all your help and hope i can help you in return

Good to hear that candlea & hope u do great things.

Hi candles,

Well you are not as new at this as you might think you are.  

Hence why your gifts are getting stronger.

Im sure it wont be too long and you will be able to teach us all a thing or two!

Kelcie