I had two palms readings in my early 20s both of them are from India and migrated to Canada. I'm amazed, as both of them are accurate.  One predicted that I will stop my schooling, and I did for some reason. One mentioned that I will not be with the person that I was with then, and it did came true.  Now I see it as a guidance to my future, what i can prevent, what i can do. at the end, you are entitled to whatever path you choices.

if you could not stop what ever they have told you, when you were aware of it. then how could you prevent anything in the future. everything that is written will take take place, there is nothing you could change or prevent.

I very much dissagree with you happi.
There is nothing spiritual in the hand; it is all connected somehow with the brain and the way that we feel in our brain ( our thoughts) show on our hand.

You could say that it is very hard to change, which I agree! it's close to impossible to change, but it's still very possible.

Ever heard the saying "When g-d gives you lemons make lemonade"?

To say that you forsure are never going to get married because you are destined for bad marriage is absurd. it's like saying I never want to eat because then I'll have to go to the bathroom...

now, I could say I'm never gonna eat food that's gonna give me a diahreah so I don't have to spend so much time in the bathroom..

instead I'll eat healthy food with lots of fiber and spend less time in the bathroom.

same with your future relationship.

make a list of important things you need in a partner and keep an eye out . or, find a matchmaker, this way you wont have to feel like you are following your fate..... or controlled by your fate.

G-d makes a map of our life but it's up to us to follow it or not.

when you say everything which is reflected in our palm is, due to the thinking of our brain. i don't think anyone out there is thinking of things like divorce, loosing their husband, wife etc in their mind, which will still reflect in their palm. could you explain that then? i have been on this site when i was 21 and i will be here long as this site is here. because whatever i have been told i would like to share that here. am trying to change things but again destiny will just come in and take its course. the biggest proof would be when i turn 28-30 and lets see if i could really control anything at that time. it has been 4 years and my palm lines are still the same, without any change to them.

believe me i try changing the person's mind but they end up doing whatever their palm said, again destiny have control over everything and nothing could be changed. i have asked many palmist to show me the evidence that things could change after reading. but none of them even reply, because they know there is no evidence. the example you have given only sound good but in real world they don't work. if things suppose to work out with matchmaker then their would not be 55% divorce rate in USA. in USA people get to know each other and many things but still their marriages fail 55% of the time.

i do believe that culture and tradition influence us when we grow up and this also make us a good or bad person as well.