nonsense, everybody has dreams that make them sad and frustrated.
Saturn is a million miles away

i meant to say such people start dreaming of such a thing which is out of reach, or they will forget the things around them just to achieve those dreams. and this could cause them problems in matter of family or relationship life as they are only focusing on those dreams only.

Thank you happi and Adceph for your answers!

I'm definetly not waiting the two years, but trying to be happy right now. Actually trying to be happy means to stop myself from thinking about my problems and blending it out, because that won't help at all right now.

To happi: I'm not married and yes, I have lots of goals and dreams. True is also that I'm very frustrated and feel disillusioned. Where did you see that? I'm a computer scientist and now I am aiming at a job in the bank (IT-section of course). Why did you ask? About the age of 60. I was once told ten years ago that I'll probably die at that age. But this is nothing I'm concerned about. Additionally he told me that I should not marry too early. About that cut in the sunline you wrote about. Is this the part where you see that 2 years things will be easier?

Thank you again =)

To happi again: At the age of 24 I thought that I found the right one for life. So this can be seen in my hand then =).