hi everyone

i made this topic because many of us go to astrology, palm reading etc. but my question is that what ever they said became true or what ever advice they gave you about changing future by taking the right steps, did that change anything for you.

example : lets say i got my palm read and they said i will get marry 2 times in my life. but were you able to change that or you did end up getting marry 2 times. im sure we got many people here who were told that age age of 25 etc u mite get divorce etc since this line is the reason etc. but were you able to change that events or it still came true as they told you. this question is not only marriage related but also any other events as well. and if you were able to prevents all these type of events then how did you do it. or you try your best but nothing changed. in that case since everything is written and already going to happen then why are we looking for remedies etc to solve it. same with vedic astrology if once chart shows that this events is coming up where the person will suffer etc then it came true as well then why are we still trying to change it. or why it didn't change even though we try changing our self or tried our best to prevent it. i hope people read this and gives a feedback on this topic. one last thing i would like to share that they said praying to god could solve many problems, that's why we have such a people who could change once fate etc since these people are very close to god (also known as tantrik, sadhu, saint, fakir). i personally pray to god (Ganesha) but my problems got even worse, i was suffering more than before, loss and disappointments. i have read somewhere in the post of Pravin ji saying that the one who pray to god, he mite suffer even more because that person die then he/she would be seated next to god in heaven. well no one have seen hell or heaven.  i believe hell and heaven are here on earth. that's why some suffer and some are happy. i would rather live happier in this life because no one have seen the next life. in my thinking and experience i have noted that god mostly helps the one who doesn't need help. god only make those happy the one who doesn't believe in him.
the one who pray i have noted that person always had very hard life full of suffering. because one of my aunt is very religious and spiritual and very close to god. she always had so many problems in her life, even i cant explain since i least need 100000 of papers to write it down.

i hope people don't find this offended, but this is just my own opinion. anyway to pravin ji i know that Ur son fate was changed by Ur guru ji but luckily its hard to find true guru like that. i know you mite say that my guru ji could change my future, fate as well. but i have something i haven't discuss with you. i remember you asked me do i disbelieve my guru then. i will answer this question the day you ask me about it. anyway i hope u guys share your stories on these topics. as it would help those who are suffering or it mite even give hope to those who have lost their ways.

thank you