Hi Aegeus

Thank you so much for your advice!!!

You know i'm Wiccan, and we use spells to assist and help as far as we can, but our spells are basic and friendly so that no harm is done at all.

I will most definitely make sure that this woman get these crystals. But get a load of this.

I had to go to JHB for bussiness yesterday, and back again. This is an 11 hour round trip or let's say an eleven hour day with at least 7 hours solid driving.

On my way home about 5 yesterday afternoon, got a call from her, that she is 5 minutes away from our tow. Now, i live on a farm about an hours drive to town. Well, got home, and was just settling down, to receive a sms from her that i "urgently" need to go and see her. She had to leave again today, because her son has a rugby match. I consider her now as a spirit vampire of note?

So, being who i am, and really wanting to help this girl. Got in my car and went to them. (by the way, no payment). So now, a Tarot reading. We know what is happening, the reading absolutely refelected the current state of affairs and then gave her some very needed but somewhat "harsh" advice. No, I gave her the advice in a stronger than normal way--here, i think it's needed. You can't continously be s+++++g and shouting and not wanting to move out of the situation.

In this 4 hour "consultation", she told me about how many pshyciatric institutions she's been in, hypnotised how many times and just rankatanking on and on!!!! Have been treated and still on treatment for depression. Priests, pastors and how many people has tried to drive "demons" out of her, what a load of ****. Some claim, that her house is so evil, they can't even go in!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What the hell? Her daughter sees "red eyes" in the one bedroom. Well, truly, i now start wondering about this lot?

I'm really not unsympathethic! She probably do suffer depression, but how possible is it, that this is a conditioning that she is bringing into her, and her children's lives. I don't think what she said a bout the husband is "generated" to attract sympathy, people don't normally go around saying things like that?

It is so obvious that she do need help, spirits most definitely control a person's mind, but she also needs to take charge and do what is neccesary to remove herself from this situation, or am i wrong?

This has truly exhausted me, i'm really so tired, got home about 12 o'clock or later last night. I have my own set of spirits in my house, but truly we live in harmony, although they rattle the place sometimes, the really don't "upset" the normal running of the house, or cause harm and i really don't mind them. Most of us has always had them around. Some are only so narrow-minded not to consider them at all.

I'm now also drawing in the help of my sister being a pshycologist, works on the aura, does reflexology and "spirit healing".

I wear a Lapiz Lazuli, which i have charged for spiritual protection, but truly think, i need to recharge it.

We have a dam close-by, which we call the "crystal dam" most rocks contain huge numbers of crystals, although i have a few, i'm going to go digging for a nice "big" crystal cluster.

Once again, thank-you so much for your advice, it was really needed.

Blessed be

Warding off evil mudra can be quite effective also. This could easily be taught to the kids.

Chysocolla is relaxing, heals feminine energies, and helps one get out of  disharmonious relationships.

"Chrysocolla is best known among Native American Indian cultures for its capability of strengthening the body's resistance and bringing about calm feeling where there has been upset and turmoil."

"Chrysocolla make s abridge of energy between the Earth and the Sky, the physical and the spiritual planes.  A stone with very feminine energies, chrysocolla ease the mental and emotional pains of any troubled relationship by relieving tension and bringing out your inner strengths.

When attempting to remove yourself from a troublesome or even dangerous relationship or situation, especially those filled with emtional tension, draw a nine inch circle on a piece of paper.  Set a peice of chrysocolla in the center of the circle, sit and meditate on what this situation is costing you in manners of self-esteem, physical danger, emotional stress and psychological duress, as well as monetarily.  Force yourself to see it for it's full and true ugliness....no excuses!  Do this for nine nights, each time moving the stone closer and closer to the edge of the circle.  In the meantime, take whatever measures are appropriate and necessary for you to be safe.  By the end of the ninth night, you should be able to remove the stone completely from the circle.

If however, you have procrastinated, and taken to steps to physically help remove yourself from this situation, moving the stone to the edge of the circle will not gain you freedom from the problem.  You may start again, but you should consider why you were unable to do it the first time, before beginning again." - http://shimmerlings.com/gemstones/chrysocolla.htm

Another thing is just like a bully the spirits will get bored fast if one is indifferent. It's only fun for them if they get a reaction. Dark spirits would be afraid of light if they are identifying with dark, so laughing and smiling through it all will likely put and end to their charade.

Don't get caught in martyrdom, do what you feel led to do, but remember you can only save your self. If your are doing well then you are in a position to influence others positively.

Jet helps lessen depression. It absorbs negative energy and turn it into usable energy.

I find warding off evil mudra combined with happiness mudra with the other hand to be very effective.


I've heard conflicting things about using books, if you have experience and know what your doing great. I have heard that book's that are obvious and the first thing one would find when looking to get into magic can be put there as stumbling blocks for anyone not taking magic seriously enough. Anyone taking it seriously enough goes through the bother find out for them self. Even good books will sometimes have errors deliberately to see if one is just blinding using the book or connecting within them self just as the author has done to come up with such a thing.

It is right to put responsibility back in her lap, she attracted this situation somehow and if she truly wants to get out of it she can find a way. Be ware of people who say that want a solution but just want to make noise, the way to tell is to give them a solution. If they act upon the solution they are genuine, but if they don't act upon the solution hearing about it will cause anxiety as it is taking away their excuse to either not do anything about it, or to continue complaining about it. Also know the difference between complaining and expressing a need and be sure the solution is apt.

Light has nothing to fear of darkness. It seems you know this, but if you can impress this upon the family the result could be miraculous. Music can be very good for spirits. The amount of tripping happening in my life there must be spirits working with me. I play drums Which I have been told helps for having a good relationship with them, as they like music. Someone told me they can see spirits dancing when I drum. Any music can do this. Getting the kids learning music could do a world of good.

Also keeping busy helps immensely, as busy hands are happy hands, and boredom leaves the mind to wander and there is no end to the phantoms a bored mind can come up with.

Some symbols can invoke protection also like Algiz, rune from the elder futhark.

Except it can be necessary to hide ones light so that it can not be blown out.