I"m 22 years old, and I live in the south.  My mom is a christian and she doesn't like my boyfriend because he's white, and because he doesn't have a job.  

I don't have any friends, and my family doesn't like me because i'm into witchcraft.  I've been lonely and depressed all my life, because I couldn't find a guy who loved me.  But now, I found a guy who worships me, and drinks my bathwater, and bows to me, and kisses my feet.  He asked me to marry him, and I said yes.  

We can't move in together yet, because I have 2 classes left in college.  My mother won't let him come visit me while I'm finishing my last classes, because she doesn't believe in premarital people sharing a bedroom together.

I want to cast a spell on her to make her change her mind.  I'm tired of her always making me miserable, and never letting me be happy.  She says family comes before everything, but I told her that she is ruining my life, and she won't let me be happy.  She jsut said that she has more experience than me, and I don't know anything about life.  She has never even been to college, and she got married when she was 16, and made a ton of mistakes.  She's just retarded, and she doesn't want me to have any happiness, she treats me like a 12 year old nun.  

My boyfriend said that he would wait for me.  But I'm soo sick and tired of waiting!!  What if I die tomorrow, and I will never know what it's like to be happy.. all I do is work work work, and never get any reward or time to be happy.  I HATE my family!!  

I'm sooo tempted to cast a spell on my mother.  

If you were me, what would you do?

Do you just have a semester left? I strongly dissagree with casting a spell to make her change her mind (I really don't know if one exists since it has to do with peoples emotions and will, but I may be wrong).
I too had somewhat of the same problem as you. I am in a bi-racial marriage, though my husband is hispanic and I am white. My suggestion would be to just wait it out. I know it sounds cliche, but if it is truly meant to be, then it will happen. Patience is a virtue.
My father is a racist bigot, as is most of his family. My father was very domineering when I was growing up. I just bided my time and it turned out to be a good choice. Since my father and his family have gotten to know my husband, things are better between all of us.
Since you only have two classes left I suggest you just bide your time and if it is meant to be it will be. Like Doris Day sang "Whatever will be will be."

I suggest that you grant your family peace and happiness, Wish the best for them, Grant them freedom from their bindings,
Meanwhile do the same for yourself,
It's okay to move away from situations that we feel are harmful to us, cut the bond.
I wouldn't wish any harm to anyone, By messing with someone else mental could really screw up other paths they are taking,
Remember the law, If you wouldn't want it done to you, don't do it to someone else.

By granting everyone this peace it may help the changing of their minds,
If you are happy everyone is happy.

No, don't cast a spell on her.
What you send out is what comes back to you.
Respect her wishes, it is her home.
Give respect, receive respect.  It may take time.

I know it is not what you want to hear.
Do spells for yourself, for building self confidence, for enjoying yourself and your life, finding happiness, doing well in school.
I was taught the first place to always start is with myself.  Where am I?  Where do I want to be, how do I get there.
I then meditate on the energy and put together a spell to help me achieve my goals.
I never include anything to manipulate others.  

I'd work on having a good relationship with my mom.  Enjoy her while you can, while you are there, respect her boundaries, they are not unreasonable.

To create what you want in life is putting forth the effort, working on self, maturing.  
To manipulate others leaves yourself wide open to get manipulated, disrespected, to have your boundaries broken.

Take this time to do some good work for yourself before you start your new life with your guy.

Hi--

I have to agree with the others.  I was just recently talking in another thread about how "magick", etc., should not be used as a replacement for taking responsibility for one's own happiness and learning to live.

You're young, and I'm glad you've found someone who makes you happy.  And--BELIEVE  me--my mother has many of the same "qualities" you describe in yours...casting a "spell" on her (if I even knew how to do that!) would be very tempting.  But there is no magic way to deal with problems with other people, especially those who have the most influence in our lives (for better or for worse).  I understand that feeling of needing to get out from under someone's control (and I'm twice as old as you!), but I'm learning that it takes work, and self-love, and determination to figure out what's right for YOU and make that happen, regardless of what others think.  It's not easy, but it's a good skill to learn early in life--I wish I'd learned it when I was your age, rather than now.

Any relationship (and any important life decision) takes work and courage.  In the case of a bi-racial relationship, you already know that there will ALWAYS be people out there who have a problem with that, or with what you and your partner do (or don't do) for a living, or your spiritual beliefs, or your wardrobe, or whatever.  Magic won't change intolerant people, and won't allow you to be happy in spite of others' negative attitudes.  That's something you need to learn for yourself--preferably now, because you're going to need that skill throughout your life if you're going to be happy and satisfied.

Just my thoughts...I wish you all the best.

Doe