Hi Black Diamond...Thanks but i havent a clue how to do them

you can research about how to do it, just be careful not to play with it coz you might hurt yourself... I'm still a researcher (not a practitioner yet) about magick so I'm not qualified to teach you some spells, but there are lots of people in this forum who can teach you...

Well in reading this I think that tourbi (sorry if I spelled it wrong) has it right, that you need to look at fixing yourself rather than making others fit to you. I know that it is human reaction to want someone we care about to come back to us, but what you need to learn is why do you feel like you need that person so much and work on that... Because at one time you were what that person wanted, what changed? Did they or did you? This is one of the hardest things to do since we don't like to blame ourselves for the things that go wrong. I have one friend who got her heart broken not too long ago and I passed on some advice from my mom. "You can't fix others, but you can fix yourself, and until you are fixed ya can't tackle someone else's problems."  *smile* my very wise mom has it right, once you are happy with you and your life then that person might come back or you might even meet someone better, magic is meant to enrich your life, not make your every wish come true. If that were the case then there would be a lot more rich witches and a lot less violence in the world. Ya Know? We have to rely on us to fix us and magic to strengthen our souls...

                I am sorry if I came off as anything other than concerned or helpful, sometimes I do not sound the way that I mean things. I hope that this helps you.

               Nyte

thing is i feel i got this negative spell put on me, wish i could return it

becuase u are always thinking when a spell is getting at you.that's y it caught u again .