It s important to know that whatever is meant to happen will happen, nothing happens before the rite time and place. Trying to change something that is not meant to be at that time or even ever will only mess with your energy and slow things down for u, and it s not the way to achieve spiritual growth.  Like someone already said in this forum, u might get what u want, but at what cost? losing someone u love, losing a family member causing pain and suffering....i personally like to believe that it s all about sending positive energy to yourself and especaly to others, what u give is what u get, the rest mother nature will do for us. I think spells do not have the power to change our destiny, but it can have an influence, afterall God gave us the power to manipulate energy, and also how to use it, but not to change certains things that do need to happen to us, not as punishment or judgement, but to grow as human and spirit.

When casting spell  { say }    No Harm to others, no harm to me    {always use this in a spell you don't want bad results from}

I'm new on this board and hope I can help