Yep, thanks for sharing that Emoshin, I still hate the old saying that time is a wonderful healer but it is true.

How wierd yet so lovely to find such a beautiful and supportive thread under such a wierd heading of Occult and Magick.. but it has turned out to be truly magical

u are right gem this has been a wonderful support group u guys and gals are wonderful, im glad i found this board and a new group of friends. big hugs and kisses for everyone here. muah.

Well it's hard to look the other way when I know how you feel. I'm glad to see you're doing better and finding your way tara. Hopefully one day soon you'll find someone in that place you've moved on from, and then you can impart your wisdom on them, helping them in turn. That's how good things get passed along. You ever need a chat or a shoulder, send me a pm and I'll listen.

thank u emoshim i really appreciate it u are so sweet, it still gets hard sometimes but im doing way better then i was. and thanks for lending me your shoulder u are the best. hugs

. Spell To Separate Yourself From A Problem/Person
Small issues can be handed in a magick circle; larger issues may need a full ritual. Think carefully about which is best for the situation. Needed :
2 black candles
a long black ribbon
black gloves
scissors
cauldron containing small amounts of alcohol
a silver bell

Cleanse and consecrate all the items, and dress the candles (to send negative energy away from you), then light the candles. Hold each end of the ribbon and name the ends. Pass the silver bell over the alter several times until you feel you are in tune with the Universal energies of love and peace. Anger is not a luxury afforded to you in the situation. Put the black gloves on and say:

"I call upon the energies of Universal balance
I call upon the ancient energies of my people
I call upon the living energies of the Morrigan
Underworld and heaven
Land and sea
I awaken these energies unto me.
Witness now that I renounce and sever
Break bonds and connections with ________
By all the powers that are One Power
May the great sisters of Karma now weave anew
and separate me from you
As I will, so mote it be'"

Cut the ribbon and say:

"It is so."

Light the cauldron, and burn both the pieces of ribbon.