I was always told never ask a question about time or love. As time is an illusion so makes no sense to the pendulum and that love is just one of those things that has so much to it that one could never possibly just get a str forward answer.
And about your pendy connecting with ya...I was given a rutilated quartz and we just never seem to get along.
I have no idea why but it just seems to be happy just chilling and not being asked questions. I have cleared it and cleared it and it still won't 'work' with me. Almost like a stubborn nope. I'm not telling you.
What on Earth do I do with it?
I mean must I rather make something creative out of it? Let it just be? Have a proper chat with it?
hummmm...ponder ponder ponder