Hi Spy!

I'm thrilled you were able to get in to this and get it done. Please don't think you are out of the woods yet. You need to do this during meditation at least 2 times per month because you have a child with him. Keep moving forward and remember, you are in control. My ex was spiritually bankrupt too and man what a dang mess. lol There are great things coming too you but you have to be ready from them. You have taken huge measures to ensure this already. If you need to find me, PM me and I will tell you where I am. I am not going to be here a whole lot anymore. I have my own group to run. lol Please take care, kiss the baby from me and you keep moving forward in love and light. You did great!!!!!

Gentle Hugs,

Julie

The effectiveness of a spell really depends on the amount of energy that you put into it. If you take it as a joke and approach it with scepticism then most likely it will fail. Ingredients play a huge role, different candle colors emit different energy or vibes, plants all have unique energies, you have to know how to get the right combination, especially for special or unusual requests. Being an empath really comes in handy, you don't have to research as much, you can just feel when you've struck the right or desired balance.

If the spell caster is different from the people involved in the spell, does it make a difference?

I'm not quite sure what you mean. Different in what ways?

Like will it work better if the caster is the same person? Or will it be the same or even better if the caster is a powerful witch?