well the problem is that you cant realy control it it could still over power you and you cant know how long you have power over it this devil can trick you and manipulate you untill it get what it wants which is usualy your soul id sugest not messing with it unless you realy know what you're doing

if youre going 2 try and do this here some steps you should try and do Step #1: Clearly mark the floor with a white chord (or white chalk) and make a protective circle or pentagram. A white marble inlaid in black marble floor would be best, but most people can't afford that. It is important that nothing disrupts the protective circle. Even a bit of dirt across the white line could ruin the spell.
Step #2: Take 3 black candles (or 5) and place them equal distances apart inside the circle.
Step #3: Outside the circle, make 3 or 5 (same number as the candles) protective talismans or sigils around you.
Step #4: If possible, create an outer circle made from crushed protective herbs mixed together.
Step #5: Calm yourself and relax. Centre yourself.
Step #6: Now, visualize the circle around you, protecting you and seperating you from the rest of your house. This is *essential*.
Step #7: Once you have done that, and the candles are lit, lay in the pentagram position (arms straight out, legs apart) and summon the succubus (or incubus).
Step #8: Feel her come into the circle and feel her power.
Step #9: Feel her coalese into a physical, or semi physical form and now you'll be able to interact with her.
Step #10: She should be easier to invoke and banish than an Incubus and I suggest a successful encounter with her followed by a successful banish of her before attempting the more aggressive Incubus. Always do these at the new moon.

I had one of those at the end of my wick once, it woke me up.  I firmly said NO.  It never returned.

If Lilith wants me she will have to wine and dine me first followed by a walk in the park holding hands.

I forgot to mention that some time earlier an entity had gently caressed my right forearm while I was semi asleep.  There is no way of me knowing if it was the same  as the second time as I only saw total darkness.  I did get the willies and said No and it stopped touching my right forearm.  The thing that struck me is that the fingers did not feel human in nature nor did I get the feeling it wished me any harm.  It just startled/spooked the heck out of me.