"However, there are odd times during the day when I'm seized by that "feeling", it hits me out of nowhere, and i'm certain he's thinking of me.  This afternoon, what started out as a daydream turned into a fantasy with a life its very own, and that's what caused me to wonder if we were sharing this sexual energy with each other, at the same time...  It's kind of nice to think we are."

It's awesome isnt it?

Tish!

On the other hand, don't you think that when people fantasize and try to 'join' energies like that for whatever reason -- IS NOT A RANDOM PROCESS OR EVENT?

We run into many but want to connect to but a few!

The analogy could be expanded wider! Why do we feel compelled to respond to some posts and not to others?

I think if we let reasoning not get in the way of perception, there is a whole universe of reality and realization awaiting for us to explore!

Whether we do it today, tomorrow, next week, next year, next lifetime is not even important! For unlike cats, we humans do not have just nine lives or lifetimes!

RR

[quote="Tish"]I don't think your question is inappropriate, but I think some people might be disturbed by the answer I'm going to give from my own experience: which is that when you think about someone, effectively you are calling them, calling their attention to you.  So if you are thinking about someone in an erotic way, you are calling them with your feelings/emotions/mental pictures.  It is possible for the person receiving to simply block these out as unacceptable (they are not attracted or they feel uncomfortable about it for some other reason).  If they are attracted, they may simply join in.  If you are doing this yourself, I say this: when the fantasy takes on a "life of its own", rather than you imagining what you like, that's when the other person is joining in.  It is all very innocent, really.  There's nothing wrong with sharing pleasure like this.

If you are experiencing a creepy feeling that someone is reaching for you and you don't want to join in, then don't.  It's that simple.  They are very unlikely to be mentally strong enough to do you harm by trying to insist, but if that happens, pray and ask your guardian angel to intervene.

I'm not sure most people are ready to realise that they are not alone in their own heads, so I hope I haven't freaked anybody out!

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By compartmentalizing the energy-experience into one small bin (sexual energy), you are letting your condtioning get in the way, dear friend!

What often gets lumped into the bin that starts with a big S (sexual) is really the superficial (another S) packaging for what really we are seeking in that package! The next letter in the english alphabet.

T for TRUST

S may get us pretty close to sharing and trust but they are different letters!

RR

(R-S-T has a nice ring to it, a sequence that makes sense!!)

[quote="Toothlesscrone"]"However, there are odd times during the day when I'm seized by that "feeling", it hits me out of nowhere, and i'm certain he's thinking of me.  This afternoon, what started out as a daydream turned into a fantasy with a life its very own, and that's what caused me to wonder if we were sharing this sexual energy with each other, at the same time...  It's kind of nice to think we are."

It's awesome isnt it?[/quote]