in chaldeon numerology we add up the vowels to get the soul nos or heart's desire and add the cosonants to get to the persona nos or manifest nos.

now my question is if these nos. are like 20 or 26 so their single digits will be 2 or 8 so then we see the meaning of (20 or 2)  or (26 or 8).

say if the full name is in harmony with the birth star when but these soul or manifest nos. are not then do we change or leave it as it is?

(are not then do we change or leave it as it is?)  the choice is yours ,but knowing what we came into the world with  is the first step , how we use these energies is key, for again  every number are combination of numbers can bring  positive or negative outcomes ...not knowing, unaware of our inner being our strengths weaknesses  will inevitably bring chaos and imbalance  (knock and the door shall be open)  (ask and you shall receive)

i understand that every nos is a key and what we choose is what happens but my question above is still unanswered.

answer  change is always a option  ,but so is finding balance      2-8 usually discordant  the potential of the 2 for cooperating and harmonizing conflicts with the executive potential of the 8 for material achievement .

the 8 usually expresses a potential to lead rather than to be a cooperating member of a group .


the number 6 is the bridge number the balancing agent   This bridge can only be built through service, more involvement with family and community affairs, and a greater sense of responsibility. You should also allow your creativity to flow more freely.

Heart's Desire 8 and Personality 2, or vice versa.

The 8 and 2 cause similar struggles, but are often recognizable in broken romantic relationships caused in part by over-sensitivity, criticism, a tendency to gossip, and large fluctuations in financial matters. The positive side of this combination is your innate ability to negotiate. Your are both the leader and the diplomat.


expression number 1  

You are a natural leader, independent and individualistic. You are extremely ambitious, original, and courageous. You employ new and unproven methods. You are an explorer and an innovator. Openness to too many peripheral influences limits and frustrates you. You are self-reliant, confident, and energetic.

You possess executive abilities and are most successful at owning or independently managing a business. You need the freedom to make your own decisions, based on your own ideas. You can be an astute politician. You also possess the ability to influence the opinions of your milieu.

The number 1 symbolizes the front-runner, pioneer, warrior, risk-taker, and daredevil. Generals, top politicians, successful businessmen, self-made millionaires, religious leaders, inventors, activists, and avant-garde artists are often born with a 1 Expression.

Strength and perseverance are central to your success. You must be willing to travel the frontiers of life, away from the beaten path. You possess a great reserve of willpower that must be directed at your goals. You do not give up, but relentlessly pursue your aims.

You are quite opinionated. People tend to be inspired or repelled by your strong personality.

You have great powers of concentration and the ability to visualize your goals, thus making them more attainable.

You stand up for your convictions and hold your ground. All of these abilities enhance your chances of success in life.

There is a tendency to be self-centered. You can be domineering and, in the extreme, a bully. You can be highly critical of others, complaining that people lack the industry or determination you possess. But this lack of understanding can alienate friends and family members from you. You must learn to control this tendency to maintain harmony in relationships.

Once you are convinced of the inherent correctness of your ideas, you stubbornly - and sometimes rigidly - defend and propagate them.

Avoid obstinacy and antagonism. You must cultivate balance, compassion, and perseverance.

You easily assume the role of protector. You spring into action when leadership is needed.

Pride can be your downfall. You so powerfully identify with your goals and ambitions that you sometimes refuse to see a potential flaw or weakness in your well-laid plans.

You possess strength and determination, which, when applied to any endeavor your are committed to, will lead you to great success in life.

Hi AngelicDevil!

The answer to your question is this.  Even if your personality number and soul number are not really in harmony with your lifepath and destiny don't worry.  While the personality and soul number is a big part of who you are, the lifepath and destiny do carry more weight.  If the Destiny and Lifepath are in harmony, then it will be that much easier to get to the end result.    

However think of it this way, if a number in your chart is not in harmony, don't run away from it.  Embrace it and learn from it.  Grow and nurture it.  Turn what you see as a negative into an asset.  Your weakness could become one of your strengths.  

Hope this helped!